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8 Most Romantic Bus Routes In SG – Scenic Views, Best Pit Stops & Budget-Friendly Activities

triciateong — Tue, 02 Jun 2026 09:07:10 +0000

Romantic bus routes in Singapore

For the partners scratching their heads for date ideas that won’t break the bank, look no further than our humble buses for a dose of inspiration. Besides being the perfect excuse to share earbuds and listen to a curated playlist, these scenic bus routes also double as an effortless date itinerary.

From waterfront views that look like a scene from Spirited Away to misty open fields straight out of Pride & Prejudice, our list of romantic bus routes is perfect for cosying up with your partner and pretending you’re in a music video.

1. Bus 14/14E

An Insta-worthy trip to the east

With candy-coloured Peranakan Houses and 101 Insta-worthy cafes to explore around Katong, Bus 14/14E is the one to take for a date straight out of a Wes Anderson film.

Starting from Clementi Interchange, you’ll cruise past nostalgic HDB estates, historic landmarks like CHIJMES and Raffles Hotel, and postcard-worthy views of the Singapore River as you make your way through the city centre.

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Get your camera ready for a quick wefie as the bus crosses over the Merdeka Bridge, with a picture-perfect backdrop of the Kallang River and Marina Bay skyline.

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Once you’re in the east, alight at the Opp Roxy Sq (ID: 92111) bus stop along Mountbatten Road and cross over to get a hearty bowl of laksa from the famous 328 Katong Laksa. Explore the charming Katong neighbourhood as you take an 11-minute stroll towards Cafe Wabi Sabi for some afternoon tea in a retro shophouse.

Image credit: Katie Platt Willes via Facebook

Strike a pose at the iconic Peranakan Houses just around the corner, or spice up your scenic stroll with a colour-hunting challenge and piece together a collage of the neighbourhood’s most aesthetic corners to post on your socials.

Add a little more whimsy to your trip by popping by the Heartware Store and Gallery, just a 3-minute walk away from the Peranakan Houses. You’ll find pop-up exhibitions featuring international artists and adorable prints and trinkets to take home as matching souvenirs.

From now till 26th July 2026, the gallery is hosting Irish comic artist Niall Breen’s first-ever solo exhibition in the region, Lazy Days. In the spirit of slowing down and smelling the roses, the exhibition features the artist’s Dog & Frog characters in quiet conversation, sharing a hug, and cloud spotting. Sounds like the perfect date.

Route: From Clementi Interchange to Bedok Interchange
Total stops: 75
Total duration: 140 minutes

2. Bus 51

A nature trail made for Strava-obsessed couples

Singapore may be tiny, but our abundance of green spaces makes hiking and jogging some of the most convenient and wallet-friendly date ideas. After all, nothing says “I love you” quite like suffering through a sweaty hike in this relentless humidity and making it out side-by-side.

Hop on Bus 51 and kick off your journey through the west, with Pandan Reservoir being one of the first few stops you’ll want to hit. When you reach the Opp Blk 408 (20141) bus stop, hop off and continue your adventure on foot. An 8-minute walk later, and you’ll arrive at the reservoir.

Image credit: Hongbin via Google Maps

Start off strong with a 6km jog along the well-paved trail that follows the edge of the water, and you might even spot a few otters if you’re lucky.

For a fun side-quest, rent a double open-deck kayak from Pandan Lodge and enjoy a leisurely ride together.

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Give your legs a break and hop back on the bus until you reach the Opp Labrador Pk Stn (15149) stop. You’ll find yourself at Labrador Nature Reserve after a 12-minute trek. Soak in the sea breeze, and saunter along the 330m-long Bukit Chermin Boardwalk. On one side of the boardwalk, you’ll spot conserved colonial bungalows and rocky shores, and sweeping views of the sea on the other.

If a 330m stroll sounds too easy, the coastal boardwalk makes up just one section of the full 2.1km Labrador Nature & Coastal Walk, so you can still close those rings.

Once you’ve soaked in the view, get back on the bus and head to your final stop, Opp Alexandra Retail Centre (15049). From there, it’s a 16-minute hike to HortPark, one of the more underrated gems along the Southern Ridges trail. The 23ha park is the perfect resting spot for a picnic or casual stroll around, with over 10 themed gardens to explore.

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The Therapeutic Garden, designed in line with the principles of horticultural therapy, features a romantic gazebo where you’ll get to slow down and enjoy some uninterrupted quality time. It may not be the iconic glass gazebo from the Sixteen Going on Seventeen duet scene, but it has all the romantic, whimsical charm of a setting straight out of The Sound of Music.

Turn the romance up a notch at the Butterfly Garden, where the winged residents are sure to get your heart fluttering.

Then keep the sparks flying over a hearty meal at the all-day brunch spot Canopy or opt for something a little fancier with Vineyard, a French-inspired restaurant serving up ala carte buffet ($58/pax) with mains like French Duck Confit and King Oyster Mushroom Steak.

Route: From Jurong East Interchange to Hougang Central Interchange
Total stops: 95
Total duration: 146 minutes

3. Bus 89

A laid-back route for outdoorsy couples

Escape the hustle and bustle of the city and hop on Bus 89 from Hougang Central Interchange (64009) for a tour of the heartlands. While the scenery is pretty average since it mainly runs through neighbourhoods, it’s still a super handy route for a spur-of-the-moment date.

Hop off at the Downtown East (78109) bus stop to head to Wild Wild Wet for some fun under the sun, or make your way to Pasir Ris Park, just a 5-minute walk away, ideal for a slow bike ride around the park or frolicking along the 6ha mangrove boardwalk.

Image credit: 陈媛 via Google Maps

If staying active is your shared love language, PAssion WaVe @ Pasir Ris also offers rock climbing sessions (from $6 for members and $7 for the public), as well as water activities like dinghy sailing and stand-up paddling.

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Or ride off into the sunset together at Gallop Stable, a horseback riding centre where you can feed their horses ($2) or try riding lessons (from $45).

There’s still more to do along the way. Get back on the bus and enjoy the journey until you arrive at the Bef S’pore Aviation Ac (99181) bus stop. Changi Beach Park is just an 8-minute stroll away.

Changi Beach Park at sunrise.
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The Seletar Aerospace Park might be the go-to spot for plane-watching, but Changi Beach Park might top it with its intimate vibe, soothing sea breeze, and panoramic views of planes soaring overhead. Plus, it happens to be a great spot to recreate that iconic beach scene from Endless Sunshine of the Spotless Mind.

After a romantic sunset stroll, end your night on a sweet note with some old-school desserts at the Changi Village Hawker Centre, just a 3-minute walk away.

Image credit: House of Melissa’s Boutique Farmstay via Google Maps

If your partner’s birthday or your anniversary is around the corner, score some extra brownie points with a night at House of Melissa’s Boutique Farmstay (from $235/night). The colonial-style retreat is fitted with a swimming pool for a refreshing dip, as well as a BBQ pit and pizza oven for a late-night supper fix.

The farmstay is a 10-minute walk from Opp Maranatha B-P Ch (99031) or St. George Chapel (99039) bus stop.

Route: Hougang Interchange to Airport Cargo Road (Loop Service)
Total stops: 28
Total duration: 135 minutes

4. Bus 117 or 103

Scenes that look straight out of an anime

There are views of the water on both sides, so it doesn’t matter where you’re sitting.
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Calling the couples whose perfect date is bingeing anime together – this one’s for you. A ride on Bus 117 or 103 might just be the closest thing you’ll get to a real-life Studio Ghibli scene. The seemingly endless stretch of water along Yishun Dam feels oddly reminiscent of Chihiro and No Face’s magical train ride in Spirited Away.

You’ll want to catch the bus around 6.30pm and snag that seat on the upper deck for the best view of the sun as it sets behind the dam.

Image credit: Wheeler’s Estate via Google Maps

For a brunch date, waterfront cafes like Wheeler’s Estate and Wildseed Cafe and Bar are both just a 3-minute walk away from the Bef Baker St (68099) bus stop.

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Just a minute away from the same bus stop is also the Hampstead Wetlands Park, where you’ll find water lilies that look like they belong in a scene from Ponyo.

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If you’re taking bus 103, alight at the Affinity at Serangoon (63201) bus stop near Japanese Cemetery Park, where you can walk hand-in-hand with your lover through pink floral archways reminiscent of the cherry blossoms in Japan.

Your best bet to catch the pink bougainvillaeas in full bloom is to head down after the rainy season, and you might want to bring a tripod with you to get that perfect couple shot.

Bus 117
Route: From Punggol Interchange to Sembawang Interchange
Total stops: 37
Total duration: 55 minutes

Bus 103
Route: Serangoon Interchange to Yishun Interchange
Total stops: 43
Total duration: 60 minutes

5. Bus 123

A slow & scenic cross-island route

Starting from Bukit Merah Interchange (10009), you’re in for a slow and serene ride through the nostalgic Queenstown estate towards Holland Village and the Singapore Botanic Gardens aboard Bus 123.

Along the way, you’ll want to alight at the Napier Stn Exit 1 (13019) bus stop to find a lesser-known spot hidden within the gardens. Just enter through Tanglin Gate, and you’ll stumble upon Swan Lake about a 7-minute walk away.

Swan Lake at Botanic Gardens.
Image credit: @tjingheng via Instagram

Whether you’re a millennial with a soft spot for classic rom-coms like When Harry Met Sally or a Gen Z who has memorised the lyrics to That’s How You Know from Disney’s Enchanted, one thing’s for sure – Central Park is one of the most iconic spots in recent rom-com history.

We might not have Central Park, but Swan Lake comes pretty close. It’s even got its own romantic gazebo lookout spot, great for a quiet moment alone with your partner. If you’re lucky, you might even catch a glimpse of the iconic pair of mute swans from Amsterdam gliding across the still waters.

Image credit: Sentosa

From there, the bus takes you through River Valley and Orchard Road before heading south. Bus 123 is the only public bus that takes you directly through Sentosa Gateway, past Resorts World Sentosa and all the way to the final stop of the ride, Beach Station Bus Terminal (14539).

You’ll want to get a window seat on the right side of the upper deck to get an extra magical view of the Far Far Away Castle.

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Get off at the Resorts World Sentosa (14519) bus stop for a trip to the Singapore Oceanarium – previously S.E.A Aquarium – that’s straight out of a scene from To All the Boys I’ve Loved Before: P.S. I Still Love You.

Route: From Bukit Merah Interchange to Beach Station Bus Terminal
Total stops: 43
Total duration: 61-104 minutes

6. Bus 145

Go on museum-hopping dates & play tourist in your own city

Almost everyone loves a nighttime car ride through the city, but in this economy, it might be smarter for your wallet to opt for the bus and save for that next anniversary date instead. Thankfully, Bus 145 has got you covered.

One of the more popular routes for sightseeing, it passes through iconic landmarks like the colourful Old Hill Street Police Station and historic sites including the Sultan Mosque, Sri Mariamman Temple, and the Buddha Tooth Relic Temple.

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Fun fact: Quite a few places like Boat Quay and Chinatown, also featured in Singapore Airlines’s older in-flight safety video from 2017, are a stone’s throw away from various stops of Bus 145’s route. So yes, you’re riding through a curated reel of some of Singapore’s most unexpectedly romantic corners.

Live out your Midnight in Paris dreams and go on a museum-hopping date through the Civic District. Hop off at Opp the Treasury (04249) or Old Hill St Police Stn (04223) to start your journey at the Asian Civilisations Museum. Entry is free for all Singapore Citizens and Permanent Residents, with permanent exhibitions on Levels 1 to 3 featuring art and artefacts across various themes.

Image credit: National Gallery Singapore via Facebook

Right next door, the National Gallery Singapore has free and ticketed exhibitions and programmes. Catch the gallery’s first R18 exhibition show, Passion is Volcanic: Desire in Southeast Asian Art, happening from now till 30th August 2026. It explores desire, eroticism, and the body over 70 artworks featuring rarely seen pieces from the National Collection. Tickets start from $5 and can be purchased on-site.

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While you’re there, head up to Milli Sky Dining & Bar on the rooftop for lunch overlooking the skyline, with front-seat views of the Singapore Flyer, Marina Bay, and the CBD. The 3-course lunch set starts from $38 and features local dishes with a fusion twist. Don’t forget to try their cocktails like The Singaporean Breakfast ($28), an Espresso Martini inspired by kaya toast and kopi.

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Continuing on your journey, you’ll arrive at Singapore Art Museum via the Opp Former Railway Stn (14061) or Former Railway Stn (14069) bus stop. Stop by their latest exhibition, Hiroshi Sugimoto: Form Is Emptiness, which draws on Buddhist concepts of the mandala and texts to examine the role interpretation plays in our understanding of reality. It’s open from now till 4th October 2026, and a ticket costs $15 for Singapore Citizens and PRs.

Route: From Buona Vista Terminal to Toa Payoh Interchange
Total stops: 55
Total duration: 90 minutes

7. Bus 172

A cinephile couple’s perfect route

You might have heard of Bus 172 before, thanks to its reputation as one of the scariest bus rides in Singapore, but trust us when we say it’s a completely different vibe in the early hours of dawn.

Jalan Bahar.
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Think ethereal mist cascading over open fields without another soul in sight, as if you’ve slipped into another world. We can’t help but think of that scene when Mr Darcy emerges through the fog to meet Elizabeth in Pride & Prejudice – you know the one.

Mr Darcy in Pride & Prejudice.
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Though it’s one of the shorter routes on this list, the bus will still take you and your partner on winding roads through the tranquil fields and forests along Old Choa Chu Kang Road and Jalan Bahar.

There’s more than just peaceful views to look forward to along the way. Alight at either the Home Team Academy (30049) or Opp Track 14 (30059) bus stop, and make the 20-minute trek to Qian Hu Fish Farm. While it may not be the most convenient, entry is free, and it’s got enough activities to keep you occupied for the afternoon.

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The ornamental fish farm is one of the biggest in Singapore, and with the many rows of fish tanks, it’s giving the same vibe as that famous scene from Romeo + Juliet when the lovers lock eyes through a fish tank.

The Romeo + Juliet meet-cute scene.
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Soak in the fish spa for 30 minutes ($10/pax) or go on an old-school longkang fishing date (30 minutes for $7/pax, 1 hour for $12/pax) with a complimentary fish tank for you to take home.

Image credit: Tenplus via Google Maps

Grab dinner at Tenplus, a safari-themed bistro located a 10-minute walk away from the Opp Chengtai Nursery (30099) bus stop. You’ll want to give their crowd favourite Torched Aburi Prawn & Clam Pasta ($22.90) and Grilled Angus Cheese Burger ($25.90) a try.

BTW, they also have free live band performances after 7pm on the weekends. They even take song dedications, so consider this your chance to sweep your partner off their feet with a little romantic gesture.

Route: Choa Chu Kang Interchange to Boon Lay Interchange (Loop)
Total stops: 31
Total duration: 33 minutes

8. Bus 518

Tour Marina Bay with date activities for any budget

Just like Bus 145, Bus 518 is also up there on the list as of the more well-loved routes amongst those chasing city views and stunning skyline shots for the ‘Gram.

Starting from the heartlands, this ordinary bus ride turns into a low-budget city tour once you hit the expressway going towards Orchard and Dhoby Ghaut, before finally looping through Bayfront Avenue.

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Be sure to have your camera on stand-by when you’re at the Opp The Ritz-Carlton (02171) bus stop as that’s the last stop before the bus takes you onto Bayfront Avenue, parallel to Helix Bridge. The best seats in the house are up front on the upper deck to catch a glimpse of Marina Bay Sands looming overhead in all its glory.

Don’t get too distracted though, as there are better views waiting for you. Remember to get off at the Bayfront Station Exit B (03509) bus stop to make your way to Marina Bay Sands hotel. Head to Hotel Tower 3, Level 56 to make it to the Marina Bay Sands Skypark Observation Deck.

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Time to put your partner’s photo-taking skills to the test, because your OOTDs are about to be next level with views of Esplanade, the ArtScience Museum, Gardens by the Bay, and Marina Barrage serving as the perfect backdrop.

Tickets to the Skypark Observation Deck can be purchased on-site, but we’d recommend reserving a slot online in advance if you’re chasing those golden-hour views. Admission starts from $35/pax during non-peak hours between 10am and 4.30pm, and $39/pax for slots between 5pm and 10pm.

Image credit: Marina Bay Sands

Or switch things up with a silent disco party in the sky, with select dates available and tickets starting from $45 for the first 200 sign-ups. We might not be shutting down the sky pool for an engagement party like in Crazy Rich Asians just yet, but one can dream.

For those on a budget, you can still catch the free 15-minute Spectra Light & Water Show at the Marina Bay Sands Event Plaza, featuring dancing fountains, lasers, and visual projections. Shows run at 8pm and 9pm from Sunday to Thursday, with an additional 10pm show on Fridays and Saturdays.

Dance at Dusk by The Human Expression (T.H.E) Dance Company will be performed from 12th to 14th June 2026, at 6pm and 7.30pm.
Image credit: Esplanade

Or jam out to free live musical and dance performances at the DBS Foundation Esplanade Outdoor Theatre with new shows every weekend. Check out the Esplanade website for the line-up.

If you’re up for an adventure, sign up for a free session with DBS’s Sailing At The Bay, but be quick – fastest fingers win as there are only 10 spots per session. This one might take a little more planning, as you may need to snag tickets from the DBS Sailing website up to a month in advance to get a slot, especially for weekend slots.

Route: From Pasir Ris Interchange to Bayfront Avenue (Loop service)
Total stops: 90
Total duration: 120 minutes

Plan your next date with these romantic bus routes in Singapore

When your boo texts asking what you’ve got planned for the next date, this guide’s got you covered.

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Cover image adapted from: Syaqil Sarafian via Facebook, @superhappynerd via Instagram

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20 Free Date Ideas In Singapore So You Can Paktor Without Going Broke

Batrisyia Redhuan — Thu, 16 Apr 2026 02:00:58 +0000

Free date ideas in Singapore

Valentine’s Day or not, it’s only natural to want to pamper the special ones in our lives. Although gift-giving is a thoughtful gesture, don’t get too wrapped up in spending too much – you can still spend special occasions with your partner without breaking the bank.

Don’t believe us? Check out these free date ideas in Singapore so you can show them you care without dipping into your savings.

1. Mandai Boardwalk

3.3km boardwalk with opportunities to catch native wildlife in action

Even if you’re not headed to the various parks in Mandai Wildlife Reserve for a date at the zoo, there’s a quiet spot nearby where you can catch a glimpse of the native fauna. The Mandai Boardwalk is just a few minutes’ walk away from either Mandai Wildlife EAST or River Wonders, and it’s a 3.3km-long scenic boardwalk to spend a lovely morning stroll at.

There are multiple rest stops and lookout points along the boardwalk themed after the types of animals you can see in the area, so you’ve got the option to take it slow to soak in the views together. For some friendly competition, see who can spot the most critters; ones to keep an eye out for include the White-bellied sea eagle, Sunda colugo, and Oriental whip snake.

The entire boardwalk takes about 70-85 minutes to complete, and do head down in the morning, as a saunter here in the sweltering afternoon heat is not it. Do note that the Mandai Boardwalk is closed at 7pm, and we recommend starting at the Mandai Wildlife EAST entrance and exiting at River Wonders, so you can pick up a well-deserved drink at the park’s Starbucks.

Nearest MRT: Khatib

Mandai Boardwalk

Admission Fee

Free

2. Sentosa Sensoryscape

Multisensory garden with pretty light installations

If you’ve already visited Universal Studios Singapore a go for the umpteenth time, consider swapping your roller coaster rides for a trip to Sentosa Sensoryscape. Opened in 2024, it’s a multisensory garden where folks can frolic amongst manicured plant displays or simply take in the views of the various light installations.

Over at the Tactile Trellis, you’re invited to touch the plants to feel their various textures in case holding hands just ain’t enough. Meanwhile, the Scented Sphere is dotted with fragrant flora to tantalise your nose. Once dusk falls, the entire area becomes every bit more romantic as the installations here light up in hues of every colour.

The floor below the Lookout Loop will be enveloped in a layer of dreamy mist, while the Glow Garden is almost fairytale-like, as you close out the night with the arching flower stalks overhead that illuminate the night.

Also, download the ImagiNite app (App Store | Google Play); it allows you to mess around with cool AR features on your phone to watch the zones come alive with virtual butterflies, marine life, and plants.

Nearest MRT: Harbourfront

Sentosa Sensoryscape

3. Keppel Coastal Trail

Short 340m boardwalk near Labrador Nature Reserve

Image credit: NParks

Just across the waters of Sentosa lies Keppel Coastal Trail; this one’s just the thing for couples who’d like to stretch their legs, but prefer not to embark on a hike that stretches on for kilometres. In fact, this elevated boardwalk is only 340m-long, so you needn’t pack too much for this short but sweet date activity; heck, it’s even ideal for spontaneous picnics.

Image credit: NParks

You’ll want to get your camera out for the unblocked views of the ocean, ships bobbing across the water’s surface, and even Singapore’s offshore islands like Pulau Bukom. Of course, there’s plenty of wildlife to capture within your viewfinder too; in particular, cross your fingers and you might catch rare, migratory birds like the Yellow-rumped Flycatcher.

Nearest MRT: Labrador Park

Keppel Coastal Trail

4. Bidadari Park

5 mins from Woodleigh MRT, with bird-watching spots & a lake

For those who want to prolong their dates after feasting and shopping at The Woodleigh Mall, look no further than Bidadari Park. It’s located just a sheltered, 5-minute walk from the mall, it’s a well-needed pocket of green nestled within the heartlands of Singapore.

For starters, make a stop at the park’s Alkaff Lake. Not only has it done a splendid job of recreating the scene at the former Alkaff Lake Gardens, it also acts as a stormwater retention pond to protect the nearby estates from floods. Spend a moment to take in its serenity; it serves as the pretty backdrop for a HTHT too.

Further in, there are bird-watching spots where you can take a seat and try to spot the fleeting, migratory birds that the area is known for. The park also sports Singapore’s one and only raptor nest platform, which serves as a nesting site for birds of prey.

Nearby, little ones can run wild at the Adventure Playwoods playground, which is equipped with slides, climbing nets, and even a mini zipline.

Nearest MRT: Woodleigh

Bidadari Park

5. Chinese & Japanese Gardens

Huge park in the West with installations inspired by China & Japan

In the West, the recently redeveloped Chinese and Japanese Gardens are both great locations for a day out in the sun. Like their names suggest, you’ll find a slew of structures and installations inspired by China and Japan scattered all around the green, so if you two are planning a grand trip to those countries, practice your couple poses here first.

You simply can’t miss the Chinese Gardens, which include the majestic Cloud Pagoda that bears a striking resemblance to the Linggu Temple Pagoda in Nanjing. Don’t leave without a stroll in the Bonsai Garden, which is meant to be a recreation of a distinguished Chinese courtyard, and board the Stone Boat for an intimate moment atop a sea of lily pads.

The Japanese Gardens are equally as stunning. The Sunken Garden proves to be a hotspot for IG–worthy snaps with its unique, valley-like architecture; it even lights up beautifully at night. The gardens’ Water Lily Pavilion is the largest of its kind in Singapore, housing over 150 water lily species, and the Breathing Garden is where you can view terrariums and paludariums within its air-conditioned premises.

Nearest MRT: Chinese Garden

Chinese and Japanese Gardens

6. Tampines Boulevard Park

Sakura-like flowers & kid-friendly cycling track

Image credit: Yao Zhong Yue via Google Maps

On the other hand, Easties can simply head to the new Tampines Boulevard Park. It’s the go-to family-friendly spot for those living in the vicinity ever since it fully opened in February 2025. Whether you’re a DINK couple or a family with little ones to satisfy, just swing by for a visit and you’ll see why.

Image credit: NParks

Starting with its East section, there’s 1,200 sqm of fenced area dedicated to pets for you to unleash your furkids to roam about, as well as a nature playgarden where kids can balance on logs and skip on tree stumps.

Image credit: NParks

On the West end of the park, the sand play area is another fun hangout for the kids to explore, and it’s also a tribute to Tampines’ old sand quarries. Meanwhile, the elevated garden is where you’ll find all sorts of fauna and flora, including the Pink Mempat. It’s a native, flowering tree whose blooms resemble those of cherry blossoms – just the thing for those wanting to recreate heart-pounding scenes ripped straight from a romance anime.

Nearest MRT: Tampines

Tampines Boulevard Park

Admission Fee

Free

7. Hyundai Discovery Tour

Free tour where you can harvest veggies & go on a joyride at a rooftop track

Image credit: Hyundai Worldwide

For something different, trade in your usual mall dates for a visit to the Hyundai Motor Group Innovation Center Singapore (HMGICS) in Jurong. They’ve got free tours that absolutely anyone can sign up for.

Image credit: Hyundai Singapore

Called the Hyundai Discovery Tour, visitors get to view the HMGICS’ state-of-the-art facilities up close, such as their vertical smart farms. You even get to pilot one of the robot arms to plant seeds of your own, and you can even harvest a couple of greens yourself to see if your future BTO’s garden has a shot at blooming.

Image credit: @hyundai.innovation.sg via Instagram

Another highlight of the tour that is sure to please motorheads is the thrilling Skytrack Experience. Strap in for a joyride in one of Hyundai’s latest range of vehicles around HMGSICS’ 620m-long rooftop driving track. Certain parts of the track are even angled as much as 36.8° and the cars here zoom up to 83km/h, so there’s no shame in screaming your lungs out, even for the dudes.

Nearest MRT: Lakeside

Hyundai Motor Group Innovation Center Singapore (HMGICS)

8. Omnigym Sea Shell Park

Free-to-use outdoors gym, equipment with weights that go up to 100kg

Image credit: CTART

Gym dates aren’t exactly revolutionary, but paying for 2 gym memberships or entry passes at once can get costly. Enter Omnigym; they’re a Finnish company that specialises in building outdoor gyms with adjustable weight profiles so users can clock in a legit workout. They’ve just installed their very first set of equipment at Sea Shell Park, a park found at Pasir Ris Drive 4.

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Of course, all these are free to use for all, and some of the exercises you can perform here include lat pulldowns, squats, bench press and bicep curls. Their machines are not to be scoffed at, as some of them have resistance profiles of up to 100kg, but that’s nothing when you’re imbued with the power of love, so go on and crush your PRs together.

Nearest MRT: Pasir Ris

Sea Shell Park

9. National Museum of Singapore

Free, permanent IG-worthy exhibition about Singapore’s history

You can’t go wrong with a sweet museum date, so it’ll definitely please you to know that admission to the National Museum of Singapore is FOC for Singapore Citizens and Permanent Residents. Even if they don’t have any ongoing seasonal exhibitions, they’ve got permanent ones to look forward to on your visit.

The Singapore Odyssea: A Journey Through Time is one of them, and is equal parts visually stunning and educational. You’ll be brought on a time-travelling expedition to learn more about Singapore’s rich history through various zones, from our nation’s colonial past to the formation of today’s landmarks like GBTB and Marina Bay Sands.

Some of the more eye-catching displays you’ll want to whip out your camera for include the digital waterfall that ripples beneath your feet, and the Glass Rotunda that lights up with flashes of Singapore’s trade routes, past and present.

Nearest MRT: Bencoolen

National Museum of Singapore

Admission Fee

Free general admission for Singaporeans and PRs

Recommended tickets at S$14.49

S$20.00

S$14.49

10. Palawan Beach

Go on a car picnic while admiring beach views

Impress them by turning your car into a cute date spot.
Image credit: @picniques207 via Instagram

Rather than picnicking in the gardens, try something fresh, unique, and romantic. Turn your car trunk into a mini fort by bringing your favourite pillows, blankets, and some fairy lights for the ambience. A picnic isn’t complete without snacks – so pack a few sandwiches, potato chips, and beverages. Voilà, you’ve got the perfect car picnic set up.

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Pro tip: Park your car at Palawan Beach carpark with the car boot facing the sea for sick views while enjoying your picnic. After your meal, stroll along the rope bridge to the “Southernmost Point of Continental Asia” and climb up the watchtower that looks out to the surrounding views of Palawan Beach on one side and the South China Sea on the other.

Palawan Beach

11. Singapore Botanic Gardens

Plan an iPad movie date at a UNESCO World Heritage Site

If you’re a fan of the outdoors, skip the movies and try this free but still romantic alternative. All you need is a fully-charged iPad with an entire season of Bridgerton or The White Lotus downloaded, a picnic mat, blankets, and pillows.

There are various spots around Singapore Botanic Gardens for your sibei cute set-up – we’d recommend the Pavilion Garden, Symphony Lake, or Gallop Extension. Bring an ice pack and portable fans to stay cool so you don’t melt in Singapore’s heat.

Nearest MRT: Botanic Gardens

Singapore Botanic Gardens

Admission Fee

Free

Recommended tickets at S$50.00

S$93.75

S$50.00

12. Marina One

Bring along art materials for a makeshift art jamming session

The moment you step into Marina One, you’ll feel like you’ve been transported to a sci-fi setting.

If you prefer a more DIY art jamming session, bring your own ‘studio’ to Marina One and get painting with your bae. Pack paintbrushes, paint, and canvas – and there you have it, a portable studio ready to go.

No need to bring chairs as there are benches.
Image credit: Choo Yut Shing via Flickr

To make it more fun, set some rules. Try out the viral switch paint challenge on TikTok, where 2 people take turns painting on a canvas. You won’t know what the end result will be, but it’s a great opportunity to find out if you and your SO have some mental telepathy going on.

Nearest MRT: Marina Bay & Shenton Way

Marina One Show Gallery

13. Seletar Rocket Tower

Spot constellations in the night sky with your SO

Climb up the stairs to get an unparalleled view of the stars.
Image credit: NParks

Almost every romantic comedy features a couple gazing at the night sky in a park. Channel your main character energy and take your boo on a stargazing date at Seletar Rocket Tower. All you need is a pair of binoculars in hand and the right viewing conditions – just remember to check the weather before you head there.

Bonus: If your partner’s an astronomy geek, Woodlands Galaxy CC features an observatory roof with NASA-grade telescopes at just $1/per pax. Alternatively, you can also check out our favourite stargazing spots in Singapore.

Nearest MRT: Springleaf

Seletar Rocket Tower

14. Science Centre Singapore

Free entry to science-y exhibits during weekdays

I’m sure most of us visited Science Centre Singapore when we were kids. Now that we’re older, relive the nostalgia with your special person by planning a date there. During off-peak times, which are weekdays during the school terms, entry is free for Singaporeans and PRs.

Don’t miss a whimsical lab installation in Professor Crackitt’s Light Fantastic Mirror Maze, where you’ll make your way through a kaleidoscope of mirrors and find your way out of the maze.

There’s also a 5m-tall inflatable globe installation featuring imagery from NASA – perfect to surprise your date if they’re an astronomy geek.

Nearest MRT: Jurong East

Science Centre Singapore

Admission Fee

(Singaporeans & PR): Free on weekdays during the school term | $4/child, $4/senior citizen (above 60 years old), and $6/adult on weekends and PHs

Recommended tickets at S$8.74

(Price displayed may vary from vendor site due to currency conversion.)

S$10.00

S$9.27

S$8.74

15. Sembawang Hot Spring Park

Soak your toes with boo at a natural hot spring

There’s no need to cross the border over to Malaysia to reap all the benefits of a hot spring. Enjoy the shiokness of the warm water at Sembawang Hot Spring Park, especially since the weather has been pretty chilly lately. Here, you can soak your bare feet in a relaxing foot spa at a toasty 40°C.

If you’re hungry, bring some eggs and a bucket. There are cooking stations where you can boil some eggs and share this unique experience with your boo.

Nearest MRT: Yishun

Sembawang Hot Spring Park

16. Esplanade

Occasionally has free programmes to catch

Image credit: Esplanade

Let’s face it: concerts can be a little costly and some of us are trying to survive the GST hike this year. Here’s a secret: Esplanade has free programmes where you can listen to a live orchestra that serenades the both of you with ballads of popular love songs.

Nearest MRT: Esplanade

Esplanade – Theatres On The Bay

17. Changi Beach

Witness breathtaking sunset views & cycle to your heart’s content

There’s something romantic about watching the sky turn from blue to pastel pink and orange.
Image credit: @lsljojo via Instagram

One of the best places to catch the sunset in Singapore is at Changi Beach – after all, there has to be a reason why Changi Boardwalk has a section called the Sunset Walk.

There are Instagrammable spots like flower patches and a lookout pavilion giving an overseas feel.

If you feel like prolonging your date, check out Changi Bay Point PCN. Take your bae cycling or rollerblading to enjoy the Jeju-like views. During your ride, you can also enjoy the seaside view from the wide cycling bridge.

Nearest MRT: Pasir Ris

Changi Beach Park

18. Canterbury Road

Go on a free photoshoot with bae to create memories

Canterbury Road.

There’s no need to spend big bucks to hire a photographer to have a photoshoot with your sweetie. All you have to do is whip out your smartphone, tripod stand, and get to snapping photos with your bae. Don your best outfit, add eye-catching jewellery, and start posing with your partner.

If you want photos that look like they’re taken overseas, pop by Canterbury Road after 6pm. Soft light fills the entire place during the golden hour.

Pro tip: maintain a low aperture for a romantic, fairytale feel.

Nearest MRT: Labrador Park

Canterbury Road

19. Japanese Cemetery Park

Enjoy the cherry blossom season in SG

Image credit: @edvventurer via Instagram

You don’t have to take a plane to Japan to enjoy cherry blossoms. The Japanese Cemetery Park in Singapore offers a dreamlike alternative to famous cherry blossom spots like Mount Yoshino. Beautiful floral arches and Japanese architectural details add to the charm of this little spot. With its well-kept and zen-like atmosphere, this park will transport you to Japan.

Nearest MRT: Kovan

Japanese Cemetery Park

20. Changi Airport T3

Watch free movies

Every day of the week, the vast open space at Basement 2 at Changi Airport T3 hosts several movie screening sessions on its grounds. The best part is, they’re free for all.

Everything from family-friendly flicks and rom coms to action thrillers will be shown. Come supplied with your own snacks and blankets for maximum comfort. Don’t forget to check out the movie schedules prior to heading over.

Nearest MRT: Changi Airport

Changi Airport Terminal 3

Make romantic dates memorable with these free date ideas

See, there’s no hard and fast rule that says you have to spend loads of money just to impress your sweetheart. Get quality time with your significant other without breaking the bank with these free date ideas. Your bae is sure to appreciate these romantic gestures. It’s the thought that counts after all.

For more romantic activities to surprise your SO with:

Also read: 44 Free Things To Do In Singapore From Free Museum Visits To Beachside Movie Screenings

44 Free Things To Do In Singapore From Free Museum Visits To Beachside Movie Screenings

Cover image adapted from: The Smart Local
Originally published on 13th February 2023 by Batrisyia Redhuan. Last updated by Khoo Yong Hao on 16th April 2026.

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10 Dating Apps For Singaporeans To Meet New People Before Valentine’s Day 2026

Joanne Chim — Tue, 10 Feb 2026 09:38:42 +0000

Dating apps in Singapore

Valentine’s Day is right around the corner. For some, it’s a season of romance. But for others who are single, it can get pretty isolating to see couples being lovey-dovey everywhere. We understand that feeling, so here are 10 dating apps with the best potential in helping you find love, or even just simple companionship, in time for Valentine’s Day.

1. OkCupid

Offers compatibility ratings for your dating app matches

See your match percentage with potential dates.
Image credit: Mashable

For those who are a little more analytical when it comes to love, check out OkCupid, a free dating app that matches you to partners based on compatibility ratings. The software requires you to choose your “intention” up front to avoid being disappointed by different relationship expectations.

To be matched to highly compatible individuals, there’s a standard list of 15 personality questions you’ll have to answer. Don’t worry, they’re pretty entertaining and the simple format of ticking boxes makes completing the quiz a breeze.

Image adapted from: @perpaulette via TikTok

Most of these questions calculate your compatibility based on responses from a range of topics such as pet preferences and your favourite retro band.

Once your profile’s set up, go ahead and start liking people. That’s when you’ll receive notifications of interested parties and compatibility ratings from their profile. The app runs on a mutual-like system, which allows a pair to start communicating only when they both swipe right on each other. So when the window of opportunity pops up, don’t be afraid to say “hey”.

2. Paktor

Dating app created by Singaporeans

Paktor means “dating” in Cantonese.
Image credit: Go Paktor

For something closer to the heart, check out the homegrown Paktor. The mechanics are pretty similar to other dating apps, making it relatively user-friendly.

Decide the matches you’d like to receive based on the various filters available in your profile.
Image credit: Go Paktor

Image credit: Go Paktor

When individuals mutually swipe right on each other, you’ll get the option to start a conversation.

Tip: For those who wish to maximise their search for a partner offline as well, check out Gai Gai, a local dating agency owned by Paktor. The organisation hosts various events on a regular basis to bring like-minded individuals together.

3. The Inner Circle

Applicants screened by experts for exclusive membership

Image adapted from: The Inner Circle

Being disappointed by potential love interests is something that many can identify with. To minimise this, The Inner Circle scrutinises each individual upon registration. The best part? Only a select number of people who apply qualify to enter the software’s database. This is possible thanks to the team of relationship experts who carefully cross-examine each member’s credibility.

This extra tedious but personal process ensures that each member is adequately qualified in terms of character and financial stability. The Inner Circle also regularly organises highly exclusive events for individuals to have added opportunities to mingle.

4. Christian Mingle

Christian dating app

Image credit: Christian Mingle

In the spirit of being like-minded, we understand the importance of finding a partner with the same morals and values. Christian Mingle was created by Christians for this very purpose.

The platform claims to be the largest Christian dating app around, with thousands of new joiners monthly. As for how it works, users get 3 recommended profiles daily, plus up to 10 likes to give out so you’re not short of options.

However, do note that you’ll need a premium membership to unlock features like unlimited messaging. Memberships start at USD 49.99 (~S$63.26)/month.

5. Muzz

Dating app for Muslims

Image adapted from: Muzz

Just like with Christian Mingle, Muslims looking to find love in the same fashion can now meet their match on Muzz. After filling up basic information in your profile, head over to “Discover” and start browsing for potential dates.

The app has a tonne of safety features as well, including banning screenshots, allowing users to hide their profile photos, and even the option to include a chaperone in your convos.

Image adapted from: Muzz

Plus, there are advanced filtering options, where you can view everything from a potential match’s interests to their marriage intentions.

6. Bumble

Conversations are initiated by women

Chats vanish after 24 hours so be sure to catch bae in the nick of time. Image credit: Zoosk

You might want to add Bumble to your list if you’re a strong, independent woman. Traditionally, it’s the men who initiate conversations on dates, but with Bumble, the ladies have to initiate the conversation after a successful match. Which also means you’ll get to evade the risk of meeting creepy dudes who ask for nudes.

Unlike other dating apps, the algorithm for Bumble doesn’t filter out your type based on your previous swipes. This opens up even more opportunities to meet different types of people, including someone who has a personality that’s completely contrary to your type, but who knows, opposites attract too.

Image adapted from: @megsdeangelis via TikTok

That being said, you can set a pretty wide range of filters on the app to help narrow down on fellow users who have similar relationship goals, interests, and even political standpoints as you.

Image adapted from: @devonandwillo via TikTok

The platform isn’t just used for finding romantic partners either. Once you’ve created your profile, you can meet potential matches across 3 categories: Dates, Bizz and BFFs. So whether you’re looking for a lover or just a platonic friend to hang with, you’ll always have a meaningful connection available.

7. Coffee Meets Bagel

A serious dating app for real connections

Swipe from a list of users who have already “liked” you.
Image credit: Medium

If you’re tired of endlessly swiping on apps only to meet yet another individual who doesn’t have the same relationship goals as you, Coffee Meets Bagel may be your saving grace.

The app is marketed as a more serious dating platform, with users getting a maximum of 5 to 8 swipes per day, which in turn helps the app understand your preferences and introduce more compatible matches over time. While you may not be fed as many profiles daily as on other apps, this feature encourages users to more carefully consider their options before just swiping away.

8. Tinder

Most popular dating app in the world

Tinder’s the household name that basically invented the trend of online dating. Users are granted roughly 100 swipes every 12 hours, so you’ll have plenty of chances to meet a potential match before Valentine’s Day.

What a Tinder Double Date profile looks like.
Image adapted from: @itssissysheridan via TikTok

Aside from familiar features like the Super Like – which notifies users when someone’s very interested in you – Tinder has also released new features like “Double Date”. With Double Date, you won’t have to worry about getting first date jitters alone. Instead, you’ll get to team up with up to 3 pals to go on a swiping spree together. Once you guys match with another duo or trio, a group chat will be formed.

9. Hinge

A mix of Tinder & CMB

Image credit: Hinge

Hinge doesn’t quite have CMB’s rep of being an uber-serious, long-term-relationships-only app, but it’s also a little more curated than apps like Tinder. Like OkCupid and CMB, Hinge recommends profiles that the algorithm deems “most compatible” to you, and has a swipe limit of up to 8 likes per day.

Examples of funny Hinge prompts – the possibilities are endless.
Image adapted from: @swipe__right via TikTok

The platform also has a bunch of funny and thought-provoking prompts for users to display on their profiles, so you’ll be able to get a good gauge of a fellow user’s sense of humour and personality from the get-go.

10. Amble Project

Anonymous dating bot on Telegram

Bond over meaningful prompts.
Image adapted from: Amble Project

Don’t wanna show your face to the world on dating apps? Check out Singapore-made matchmaking platform Amble Project, which allows users to remain anonymous until they feel comfortable enough to reveal their identities.

Designed for those who prioritise personality over looks, Amble Project is available as both a phone app and a Telegram bot, and works by matchmaking anonymous users solely based on their interests. The platform also operates like a mini game, where users get to unlock fun facts about each other as the conversation progresses.

Dating apps for singles in Singapore

Being loved is probably the most magical feeling in the world. For those who are still on the look-out for that special person, don’t feel demoralised by the wait. If anything, we hope this list of dating apps encourages you to continuously believe that there are lots of opportunities for you to connect with people and find love.

Cover image adapted from: @itssissysheridan via TikTok, OkCupid, @devonandwillo via TikTok
Originally published on 12th February 2019. Last updated by Gwyn Lim on 9th February 2026.

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11 Classic Romantic Places In Singapore For Couples To Visit Even If It’s Not V’Day

TSL — Fri, 06 Feb 2026 02:00:00 +0000

Romantic places in Singapore

If you’ve been in a long-term relationship, you’d be well aware of what it’s like to fall into the same old routine. It’s always the same places, food and activities year in year out. Well, it’s never too late to mix things up with these romantic places in Singapore.

Here’s where you can go to add a little more spice to your relationship or celebrate that special occasion with your partner.

1. Stargaze & catch a planetarium show at the Science Centre

The Science Centre may not be the first place we think of when looking for a lovey-dovey date night idea. Heck, it’s probably far from it. Nevertheless, switch up your usual dinner-and-drinks Friday nights with a trip to the west. That’s sure to surprise your bb.

The Friday Night Stargazing & Digital Planetarium Live Show happens every 1st, 2nd, and 4th Friday of the month. For just $17/pax, couples can sit back and enjoy a planetarium show followed by a stargazing session in the observatory.

If that isn’t romantic enough, you’d have plenty of opportunities to drop astronomy-themed pickup lines. Our favourite? “Do you live on Mars? Cuz you look out of this world.”

Buy tickets to the Science Centre Singapore on Klook.

Price: From $17
Address: 15 Science Centre Road, Singapore 609081
Sessions: 7pm-10pm, every third and fourth Friday of the month
Contact: 6425 2500 | Science Centre website

Science Centre Singapore

Admission Fee

(Singaporeans & PR): Free on weekdays during the school term | $4/child, $4/senior citizen (above 60 years old), and $6/adult on weekends and PHs

Recommended tickets at S$8.74

(Price displayed may vary from vendor site due to currency conversion.)

S$10.00

S$9.27

S$8.74

Science Centre Observatory Stargazing

Admission Fee

$17/pax

2. Feel like you’re in the Maldives at Changi Bay Point

If there’s an award for most romantic country in the world, the Maldives would, without a doubt, be in the running. Bring your boo to catch the sunrise at our very own “little Maldives” here in Singapore, at Changi Bay Point.

Yes, it’s kinda ulu but the lalang patches, flower fields, and best of all, unobstructed views of the sea will make this the perfect spot to profess your love to one another. For those still in the “courting” stage, the scenic lookout points will make your other half feel like they’re in the ultimate romance movie.

Price: Free

Changi Bay Point

3. Catch a private rooftop movie screening at The Sundowner

Image credit: The Sundowner

Movie nights will be both idyllic and intimate at The Sundowner Singapore. Make it a double date – you can even jio another couple to enjoy private movie screenings, drinks and barbeque at a charming rooftop lounge.

Lovebirds will have the whole space to yourselves and better yet, sideline activities like cocktail-making workshops and rooftop farming experiences to complete the anniversary-worthy day out.

Book a Movie Screening on the Rooftop.

Price: From $350/3.5-hour session for 2 people | $75/additional pax
Contact: 9249 5400 (WhatsApp) | The Sundowner website

The Sundowner at Siglap

Admission Fee

Bar session: $150/2 pax (base price)

4. Take a stroll at the Esplanade Roof Terrace

Image credit: Esplanade

The Esplanade Roof Terrace is a prime location for a laid-back evening with your date. Head here after a meal and stroll along the Singapore River for an unobstructed view of Marina Bay Sands, the Singapore River, and One Fullerton.

Image credit: Esplanade

It’s got everything you need to set the mood for a romantic evening once the sun goes down, be it sultry lights or manicured greenery for a literal breath of fresh air.

Price: Free
Contact: 6828 8377 | Esplanade website

Esplanade – Theatres On The Bay

5. Propose a toast on the Singapore Flyer

Image credit: Singapore Flyer

Private cabin? Check. Drinks? Check. A killer view? Check. These are all the ingredients you’ll get for a romantic evening aboard the Singapore Flyer.

Image credit: @pichancruz

Besides being known for its panoramic views of Marina Bay and the surrounding cityscape, Singapore Flyer has several romantic packages for lovebirds. Think a glass of champagne ($79/adult) or a 4-course dinner ($520/2 pax) to celebrate your love.

Book your tickets to the Singapore Flyer.

Price: From $40/adult

Singapore Flyer

Recommended tickets at S$36.75

(Price displayed may vary from vendor site due to currency conversion.)

S$40.00

S$36.75

S$38.62

6. Watch Spectra, the Marina Bay Sands Light & Water Show

Image credit: Marina Bay Sands

Spectra – A Light & Water Show at Marina Bay Sands is a display of water jets, lasers and fire geysers that took 3 years to develop. It lasts for an estimated 13 minutes with colourful laser lights and jet fountains shooting into the skies for a magical evening.

Here’s the best part: it’s free! Head to the steps outside Shoppes @ Marina Bay Sands for a first class seat with your SO.

Price: Free
Timings: Sun-Thu 8pm & 9pm | Fri & Sat 8pm, 9pm & 10pm
Address: Event Plaza, Marina Bay Sands, 10 Bayfront Avenue, Singapore 018956
Contact: MBS light and water show website

Spectra – A Light & Water Show

7. Splurge on bae at CÉ LA VI

Image credit: CÉ LA VI Singapore

Situated atop the 57th floor of Marina Bay Sands tower, CÉ LA VI is a lounge, bar and restaurant that is the epitome of all things classy.

Dine on a sumptuous contemporary Asian dinner and head up to the Skybar or Sky Lounge to continue the evening with cocktails. You’ll get a stunning view of the city below, and live out your Crazy Rich Asians dream for the night.

CÉ LA VI Singapore: Restaurant, SkyBar & Club Lounge

8. Walk the OCBC Skyway at Gardens by the Bay

Image credit: Gardens by the Bay

Many may think that Gardens by the Bay is for those who love sunny strolls amid greenery and flowers. But it doesn’t stop setting a romantic mood even after the sun goes down.

Image credit: @low_winnie via Instagram

If you’re looking for a place that’s worthy of a grand romcom moment, head up to the 128m-long OCBC Skyway suspension bridge. Not only will you have the glowing Supertrees as your backdrop; you’ll also get to catch their daily light displays from 22m above ground.

Price: $8/adult
Address: 18 Marina Gardens Drive, Singapore 018953
Opening hours: 9am-9pm, Daily
Contact: 6420 6848 | Gardens by the Bay website

Gardens by the Bay

Recommended tickets at S$10.00

S$24.00

S$50.00

S$10.00

9. Pretend you’re overseas at Marina at Keppel Bay

Every so often, we need a break from our everyday lives. If you want to feel like you’re on a holiday without having to leave Singapore, head to Marina at Keppel Bay.

The breezy marina is dotted with exquisite restaurants such as Bleu and Ristorante Palermo. Pair these with a picturesque seafront view of calm waters, yachts and oceanic birds in the background and you’ve got an elegant day out on your hands.

You can even charter a private yacht from the marina to take you to the southern islands for a romantic little yacht proposal.

Marina at Keppel Bay

9. Catch the sunset at Mount Faber

Mount Faber is a hotspot for snuggle-ups at sunset. You’ll have gorgeous views of Sentosa island as your backdrop, and a myriad of activities to do with your SO.

For #fitspo couples, check out Mount Faber’s hiking trail, or if it’s an intimate dinner you’re looking for, head to Arbora for a fancy feast of Western and Asian fare. A must-go is, of course, the iconic Cable Car, so you can hold bae’s hand if he/she is scared of heights.

Don’t forget to “lock” your love in place by signing your name on a wishing bell and tying it to the lookout station.

Mount Faber Peak

10. Dine aboard a cable car

Private “sky dining” isn’t just limited to the cabins of the Singapore Flyer. You can also book a private dining experience aboard the Singapore Cable Car.

Go all out with a cable car dining package to enjoy a decadent meal as you glide across the skies. If you’re celebrating an extra special occasion, they offer a Champagne Cabin ($315++/cabin) that includes a charcuterie board with cheese and spiced salami. Enjoy the view of Sentosa and the harbour at sunset while you’re at it.

Book your Cable Car dining experience on Klook.

Singapore Cable Car

Admission Fee

Cable Car Sky Pass: $45/adult | $35/child (4-12 years old)

Recommended tickets at S$19.32

S$32.90

S$30.00

S$19.32

11. Go for a beach escapade at St John’s island

For those itching for a beach getaway but can’t travel just yet, St John’s Island is the next best thing.

Perfect for couples who love the outdoors, the island is teeming with activities such as trekking, swimming, and soccer. Not to mention, it’s got lots of natural greenery and blue waters to set the mood. If you’re extra lucky, you may just spot dolphins while you’re here.

Book a boat ride to St. John’s Island on FeverUp from $15/adult.

Singapore Island Cruise & Ferry Services | St John’s/Lazarus, Kusu & Sisters’ Island

Singapore’s most romantic places

We know, we know – You don’t need much to feel romantic as long as you and your partner enjoy each other’s company. But these romantic places in Singapore will be sure to add that extra touch to reignite sparks.

Whether it’s gorgeous views to serve as a grand backdrop, or elegant dinners to impress your partner, these go-to romantic spots will do the trick.

Also check out these things to do on our island:

Things to do all over Singapore

Cover image adapted from: Marina Bay Sands
A portion of this content may contain referral links to products. Our opinions remain our own.
Originally published on 19th December 2013 by Edlyn Seow. Last updated by Josiah Neo on 6th February 2026.

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18 Fresh Valentine’s Day Date Ideas In 2025 That Don’t Involve GBTB, Dinner Or Cinema Dates

Ong Yee Ching — Wed, 12 Feb 2025 02:00:17 +0000

Valentine’s Day date ideas 2025

With 14th February quickly approaching, you should have already made your dinner reservations, decided on a Valentine’s Day gift, and booked a flower delivery to your SO’s home. If you haven’t done all that, don’t worry. You don’t need to recycle the dinner and movie style date just yet. We’ve got a myriad of new options that will certainly dazzle your date.

From spending the afternoon cuddling with cats to getting cocktails 35m in the air, here are Valentine’s Day date ideas that will have you falling in love again.

1. npcc

Walk-in workshops for incense cones

When it comes to Valentine’s Day, best believe most places are booked out days and even weeks in advance. But if you’re looking for a last minute space to do an activity with your SO, look no further than npcc. The art concept store in Joo Chiat has revolving workshops, where customers can make their own home goods like acrylic lamps. Best of all, they allow walk-ins, so no reservations are necessary.

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They’re currently running an incense cone workshop with every valid purchase from their shop. You’ll get to infuse the clay with a scent of your choice, then shape the clay into cones that are then dried, so you can light them when you’re back home.

Address: Objet @Joo Chiat Place, Singapore 427782
Opening hours: Thur 2pm-9pm | Fri – Sun, 1pm-8pm
Contact: npcc Instagram

2. BAREMETALCO

Hand-craft a pair of metal roses

Image credit: BAREMETALCO

If you can’t bear to watch your annual Valentine’s bouquet wilt, then opt for flowers that won’t waste away after a mere day’s worth of negligence. We’re not talking about artificial blossoms; instead, craft a pair of “forever roses” at BAREMETALCO’s Make A Metal Rose workshop ($95/pax).

Image credit: BAREMETALCO

You and your partner will turn into modern-day blacksmiths in this 3-hour long metal working class, as you learn to hammer, bend, and manipulate sheets of metal. The end result is an intricate yet heavy-duty rose, perhaps a testament to the sturdy bond you share with one another.

Book BAREMETALCO Make A Metal Rose workshop.

Baremetalco

3. Wanyoo Esports

Climb the ranks in your favourite games alongside bae

Your ranked climbs won’t be disrupted by closing hours, as Wanyoo Esports is open 24/7.
Image credit: @jiaenproperty via Instagram

For couples who’d rather retreat indoors and spend their dates gaming, then make a trip down to Wanyoo Esports. China’s biggest internet cafe chain has opened its Singapore flagship store in Lavender; just one look at their arsenal of custom-built desktops and you know they mean business.

Image adapted from: @fondblack via Lemon8

Aside from their rows upon rows of battle stations, you’ll be able to book private rooms for 2 (from $7/h) if you’re planning a more intimate gaming sesh. These rooms even come stocked with free snacks, and there’s even an on-site cafe that’ll deliver your orders straight to your seats so you don’t have to go AFK.

Wanyoo Esports Orchard Gateway 网鱼电竞

4. SGCatHouse

Have a fun playdate alongside adorable British Shorthairs

Image adapted from: SGCatHouse

Visit SGCatHouse and you and your partner will surely walk out as cat lovers. This cat cafe in Paya Lebar houses 9 different breeds of cuddly kitties for both of you to snuggle up to, which include British and American Shorthairs, Ragdolls, Munchkins, and Russian Blues.

You’ll be able to lure your furry friends over with $1 cat feed purchased from the counter.
Image credit: @jo_lifedairy via Instagram

Rates start at $9/hour, and entry to the cafe comes with free-flow canned drinks. Moreover, if you’re won over by the feline residents’ wide-eyed gaze you can even go for the $65 pass that grants you 10 1-hour visits, valid for 6 months.

SGCatHouse Cat Cafe | Pet Shop | Pedigree Kittens for Sale

Admission Fee

$9/hr | $15/2 hr | One day pass: $28

5. SkyHelix Sentosa

Sip on cocktails 35m up in the air

Elevate your relationship on SkyHelix Sentosa while you sip on iced cold cocktails 35m up in the air. With a bird’s eye view of Sentosa and the Southern Islands, panoramic vistas are guaranteed night or day. Perhaps, this could be your time to shine by popping the question – just make sure you have an iron grip on your ring while you are up there.

You can time your visit to catch the sunset by booking your tickets in advance, so you can skip the lines at the ticketing booth. Each ride takes about 12 minutes, including 10 minutes at its peak height. Arrive 20 to 30 min before sunset so you won’t miss it.

SkyHelix Sentosa

Admission Fee

$18/adult | $15/child

Recommended tickets at S$18.00

S$18.00

6. Action Motion

Conquer obstacle courses & get your heart racing

If you’ve missed having butterflies in your stomach when you’re with your partner, bring them on a date to Action Motion. This indoor playground is no kid’s jungle gym with ball pits and slides. It is, however, a high tech obstacle course that will get your adrenaline pumping.

Players are given a bracelet that tracks your movement at each station to earn points. Speed and agility are key here, so get to moving if you want a high score. Apart from bragging rights and maybe the adoration of your partner for your fast moves, those with the highest daily and monthly scores walk away with prizes.

The playground features 5 zones including a rock climbing wall, a mesh labyrinth, and a Ninja Warrior-like obstacle course.

HomeTeamNS Action Motion

Admission Fee

Peak (Sat-Sun & PH): From $39.73 | Non-peak (Tue-Fri): From $35.65

Recommended tickets at S$33.25

S$34.20

S$33.25

7. Glow Kayak

Cruise through Api Api River in neon-lit kayaks

2 things that make for a fire date: a location near water, and the soft lights of dusk. You’ll get both when you book a Glow Kayak (from $$59.90/pax) night tour for you and your date this Valentine’s Day.

Image credit: Fever

The tour starts off at the Api Api River at the Pasir Ris Mangrove Nature Reserve, where you’ll cruise along a 3km route filled with encounters with Singapore’s native wildlife. Don’t worry if you aren’t sure about what you’re looking at. There are guides who’ll point out bats, owls, and fish, so you won’t miss anything.

The tour has 2 timings available and we recommend reserving your spot for 6pm, so you can catch the sunset. But the 8pm slot is just as romantic, since the neon-lit boats shine even brighter in the night.

Book Glow Kayak night tour.

8. East Inspirations

Browse vintage gems for your BTO

Image credit: @eastinspirations via Instagram

For couples who have gone past “BTO ai mai?” and are preparing to collect their keys, try out antique shopping to jazz up your home interior. Even if you haven’t applied for a BTO, this is still a great way to gain inspiration for your future home.

Image credit: @eastinspirations via Instagram

East Inspirations specialises in collectibles dating back to 1985 such as Chinese ceramics, furniture, and a plethora of decor that will add a touch of ancient China to your home.

Even if you’re not in the market for new furniture, you can also book a traditional tea session ($28/pax) with the shop’s owners. Vintage pu’er tea from their personal collection is served, as they share more about the art of tea brewing and appreciation. If you’ve run out of museums to visit, this could be the refreshing alternative for you to get that “artsy” fix.

Book a tea session at East Inspirations

East Inspirations Shop

9. Gold & Behold

Impress your boo with a kintsugi craft

On Valentine’s Day, broken hearts are a no go. But broken plates are alright if you know how to mend them back together. Take a course in the beautiful Japanese craft of kintsugi, where gold lacquer is used to piece back crockery together to highlight the cracks in an aesthetic way.

Image credit: @goldandbeholdco via Instagram

For a thoughtful, yet therapeutic afternoon with your partner, you can try the craft out for yourself at Gold & Behold. Their Modern Kintsugi workshop (from $168.88/pax) provides broken ware, tools and all the necessary materials, but you’re also welcome to bring your own dishes if you wish.

Image credit: @superlocogroup via Instagram

Book Gold & Behold Modern Kintsugi workshop.

Stay Gold Studio by Gold & Behold — Singapore’s First Modern Kintsugi Art Studio

10. St. John’s Island

Escape the crowds with a cycling date

Picnics are cute and intimate but not when you’re sharing a space with 50 other couples on the beach. For more privacy, hop over to St. John’s Island instead. Contrary to popular belief, getting here is relatively easy. It’s only a 45-minute boat ride from Marina South Pier, which is located within the CBD.

Book ferry tickets to St. John’s Island.

Once you reach the island, look out for Gogreen Eco Adventure to supplement your picnic or cycling date without the hassle of bringing your own equipment. Gogreen provides picnic mats ($19.90) and 4-person tents ($75) when you rent a bike for a minimum of 2 hours ($25). They also have rental scooters available for the same price.

Book bike rentals from Gogreen Evo Adventure.

Gogreen Eco Adventure @ St John’s Island

11. CozyPlace

Binge Netflix in a private room

Image credit: CozyPlace via Facebook

With 4 outlets conveniently located in the CBD area, CozyPlace is the ultimate solution to affordable privacy and alone time with your date. You get your own private room set with a flatscreen TV for you to watch shows on Netflix and Disney+, so you can literally Netflix and chill without parents barging in every couple of minutes.

Image credit: CozyPlace via Facebook

Let your partner know how special they are this Valentine’s Day by opting for the Romantic Starry Night decor package (from $99). CozyPlace will decorate your private room with fairy lights and set up a message board for you to leave a note for your loved one. Feel free to bring food and drinks so you have something to snack on as you catch up on binge-worthy series.

CozyPlace @ Jalan Besar

Full list of CozyPlace locations.

12. XM Studios

Perfect for your geek BF/GF

Image adapted from: XM Store

XM Studios brings 2D comic characters to life with their finely-detailed figurines. It doesn’t matter if they’re #teamMarvel or #teamDC, beloved heroes and villains from both universes are on display at this flagship store.

While your date contemplates bringing home a figurine, you can chill at the in-house cafe. 99 Coffee and Gelato serves gourmet coffees, waffles, and housemade scoops of gelato at their cosy corner.

XM Studios

13. Changi Bay Point

Go on a romantic stroll

Sometimes, keeping a date simple is all the romance you need. If your partner listed liking walks on the beach on their dating app profile, take them for a stroll at Changi Bay Point. The relatively new park connector faces the open sea, making it look like you’re on Jeju Island, not Singapore, on that stretch of sand.

Image credit: Changi Airport Group

If you want your date to last longer, you can walk from Changi Bay Point to the Changi Jurassic Mile that features giant figurines of dinosaurs along the way. Otherwise, hit up the new Moo Character Town photobooths over at Jewel Changi for cute keepsakes featuring you, your boo, and lovable characters from Disney, Hello Kitty, and Winnie the Pooh

Changi Bay Point

14. Kulnari Mystery Golf

Solve mysteries while getting a hole-in-one

Image credit: Kulnari Mystery Golf via Google Maps

Get past first-date jitters by doing an activity together, like playing mini golf at Kulnari Mystery Golf. The 18-hole course is designed to look like the 1920s and as an added twist, involves players to solve a mystery with every hole they sink.

End your night with cocktails at the 9th Hole Bar.
Image credit: Kulnari Mystery Golf

If you’re past the first date but want to keep the relationship spicy, opt for their 18 Holes + Chef’s Tasting Menu (from $86/pax), which pairs a round of 18 holes with a 4-course meal and canapes at the nearby Quay House restaurant. Also, don’t forget to indulge in the complimentary cocktails and mocktails at the in-house 9th Hole Bar.

Kulnari Mystery Golf

Admission Fee

From $30/pax for a 18-hole game

15. Tanglin Gin Distillery

Go on a classy date & sample locally-distilled gins

Image credit: @tanglinginofsingapore via Instagram

For the partner that’s serious about their tipples, take them on a behind-the-scenes tour of how gin is made at Tanglin Gin Distillery. From $49/pax, you get to see the distillation process from ingredient sourcing to bottling. At the end, you get to try the fruits of the labour with a flight of 3 locally-made gins.

Image credit: @tanglinginofsingapore via Instagram

You can also sign up for a cocktail masterclass (from $80.78/pax) if the 2 of you are looking for new ways to serve gin in upcoming dinner parties perhaps.

Of course, the full range of Tanglin Gin infusions are also available at their restaurant, The Tanglin Gin Jungle. Pair your gin with their piquant appetisers such as Masala Hummus and gin-infused Salmon Ceviche.

Book Tanglin Gin Distillery tour.

Book Tanglin Gin Distillery cocktail masterclass

Tanglin Gin Distillery

16. SPPFY

Work on open terrariums together

Image credit: @sppfyofficial via Instagram

Become plant mummies and daddies at SPPFY, as you grow your green thumbs together. Their Open Terrarium Workshop lets you put together your own garden of succulents and cacti in a pot or glass terrarium.

From $20 per creation, you get to use an unlimited amount of plants, sediments, and potting materials to put together your terrarium or pot. For an additional fee, you can also add on figurines and driftwood for a personal touch.

Image credit: SPPFY

For something more ornamented, try out their Moss Frame Workshop (from $50/pax). You get to put together a canvas using preserved moss, then decorate it with pebbles, amethyst crystals, and fairy lights. There’s even an option to personalise your artwork with wooden letters.

Each reservation slot booked is meant for one couple or group only, so you’ll be sure to have an intimate and creative date at SPPFY.

Book SPPFY Terrarium Workshop.

Book SPPFY Moss Frame Workshop.

Sppfy

17. Mandai Boardwalk at Mandai Wildlife Reserve

Romantic walk around the zoo

Tree Frog’s Hangout.
Image credit: Mandai Wildlife Group

If you’re already having your date at the zoo and don’t want to end the good time you’re having, bring them to the Mandai Boardwalk. The newly-built walking trail circles the Mandai Wildlife Reserve, but it’s completely free and open to the public. It’s also located along the edge of Upper Seletar Reservoir, so you get scenic views of the water against Mandai Forest.

Iora’s Nest lookout point.
Image credit: Mandai Wildlife Group

While the trail is only 3.3km long, there are plenty of rest stops should you need to take a break. There are 5 stations themed after some of Singapore’s wildlife; each one also has benches so you and your date can sit and talk if you’d like.

Just note that the boardwalk is only open from 7am-7pm daily, so as not to disturb the nocturnal animals in the area. If you do want to catch a glimpse of them, by all means, extend the date to include the Night Safari as well.

Mandai Boardwalk
Address: Mandai Road Track 7
Opening hours: 7am-7pm, daily
Contact: 6269 3411 | Mandai Wildlife Reserve

18. Nana & Friends Cafe

Blind box cafe

We’re willing to bet there’s a blind box fanatic in every couple. If that’s your BB, then you need to book Valentine’s Day dessert at Nana & Friends Cafe. Give them a sweet treat by ordering a Korean bingsu – shaved ice covered in toppings like mango chunks and matcha.

The blind box concept comes in when your order is called. Go to the pick-up window and the screen will rotate, revealing your dessert plus a surprise plushie with every order. The thrill is not knowing what plushie you’ll get from their current collection of 5. Don’t be too carried away though; each turn costs $18.

Nana and Friends Cafe

(Closed) The Icing Room

20 Unique Valentine’s Day Gift Ideas In 2025 If “I’m The Present” Does Not Work For Your BB

Kezia Tan — Tue, 11 Feb 2025 01:20:55 +0000

Unique Valentine’s Day gifts 2025

14th February is a day of romantic dinners, whimsical date ideas, and a gazillion floral bouquets. But as we all know, Valentine’s Day also comes with the big question: “what on earth do I get BB this year?”. For those scratching their heads, here are unique gifts to consider for every type of partner, from the serial cuddler to the Netflix addict:

1. For the one who makes excuses to skip showering in the morning

Hairdryer that dries hair in <3 minutes

Image credit: Philips

Put the shower-in-the-morning debate to rest and get your boo the Philips 8000 Hairdryer ($249). The high-speed motor dries wet hair in less than 3 minutes, so there’s really no excuse to skip washing your hair in the morning. Plus, it uses ThermoShield Advanced and Dual Airstream technology, which protect hair from heat damage, as well as reduces frizziness. Bae will be left with sleek locks you’ll want to run your fingers through every time you see her.

If you need this gift quick, sign up for an Amazon Prime account. You get a 30-day free trial to start with, and all its benefits, including free one-day priority delivery.

Philips 8000 Hairdryer review: “2 things I like about the Philips 8000 Hairdryer: It’s lightweight, so your arms don’t ache as you’re drying your hair, and it’s quiet, even on the highest setting. You’ll still hear it, but if you were just using it in your bedroom, you wouldn’t be disturbing anyone. I felt that it managed to dry my hair effectively but it did take more than 3 minutes because I have thick, long hair.” – Ariel Soh, writer

2. For starry-eyed lovers

Name a star after your partner

Image credit: @starregistration via Instagram

This Valentine’s day, get boo a gift that shines as bright as them. Name a star after them to show them that your love is universal from $60.85 (U.P. $87.95). You’ll be given a star that’s visible from our Little Red Dot so you’ll be able to see it when you’re stargazing in Singapore.

What’s even better is that there is a lifetime registry so your star will last forever – just like your love.

3. The long term BF/GF

Couple’s 100 question card game

Regardless of whether you’ve been dating for 3 years or married for 30, freshen up your next conversation by giving your other half a couples-themed card game.

Image adapted from: Amazon, Walmart

Much like New York Time’s Famous 36 Questions That Lead To Love, the Our Moments – Couples Edition ($7.63) card game features 100 thought-provoking questions to ask your partner. Keep that relationship spark going with questions that range from the curious PG13s to the wild R21s that you can only ask once the kids have gone to bed.

4. The boo who always misses you

Portrait night light

Image credit: SwanGift

Brighten up your SO’s nights literally with a personalised night light. Perfect for the ones who incessantly say “I miss you”, bae will now be able to see your illuminated face every single night before going to bed.

Turn your favourite picture together into a dreamy moon lamp ($52.78, U.P. $105.57) from Swan Gift or Customisable USB picture lamp (from $32.10) from Shopee.

5. The CBD hustler

Bespoke cufflinks

Image credit: Gift Less Ordinary

Think thoughtful jewellery and watches and necklaces may come to mind, but what’s often forgotten are cufflinks. For that CBD hustler who dresses up frequently, a bespoke cufflink is a meaningful yet practical gift that’ll have him feeling dapper during important presentations and meetings.

Customise your gift with his name on engraved cufflinks (from $78) or initials set in monogram cufflinks ($49,U.P. $69).

6. The Netflix buff

Portable projector from $25.90

From Singles Inferno 3 to Squid Game, we just can’t get enough of Netflix shows and movies. If you’re the couple that breezes through one season within a day, get your other half a portable projector for a gift you can use together.

Image credit: @lumosprojector via Instagram

Lay back, relax and be the ultimate potatoes as the pair of you enjoy your favourite shows with your new “home cinema”. Prices start from $25.90 for a portable projector, and you can refer to our full guide to home projectors to check out the best-rated ones out there.

7. The serial cuddler

Couple’s arched foam pillow

Image credit: Shopee

For most couples, cuddling is great – until one person ends up with a severe case of pins and needles. Save your big spoon from the nightly shortage of red blood cells in their arm with the couple’s arched foam pillow – a nifty product they’ll thank you for.

You can find a specialty couple’s cuddle pillow ($68.19) on Shopee made with comfortable memory foam material.

8. The “no, I’m not an alcoholic”

Cocktail shaker set

Image credit: @vostinicocktails via Instagram

They say they can’t drink, but you 200% know that ain’t true. For those that appreciate a good tipple, gift a cocktail shaker set so they can train up to be a cocktail connoisseur at home. This is a gift to your loved one, but if you think about it, also a gift to yourself – since you’d be on the receiving end of that margarita once it’s shaken up and ready to go.

Get your stainless steel cocktail shaker bar (from $14.40) from Shopee and while you’re at it, add on a set of cubic stainless steel ice cubes (from $13.90) to be extra fancy.

9. The BB who loves scents

Customised perfume

Image credit: @shersyt via Instagram

For the girlfriend who appreciates a good fragrance, bring her to a customisable perfume lab to create her dream scent this Valentine’s Day.

There are several in Singapore you can visit, including Maison 21G and Oo La Lab, both of which offer customised bottles priced from $98. While you’re there with her, be sure to recommend the floral scent – because “you make my heart go bloom bloom.”

10. The one who can’t bake

DIY Hojicha basque burnt cheesecake kit

The cake will come out perfectly sweet – just like BB.
Image adapted from: Bake Starters

Baking together is an experience that every couple should try – it’s affordable, fun and at the end of the day, you get to eat something delicious that you made on your own. But if the both of you can’t bake to save your lives, skip the supermarketing and surprise your boo with a fancy DIY baking kit.

For something Valentine’s Day-appropriate, consider decadent sweet treats like a rich Hojicha Basque Burnt Cheesecake ($34.95) or a Strawberry Black Sesame Swiss Roll ($32.95).

11. The plant parent

Edible garden kit

Image credit: @superfarmers via Instagram

With the rise of urban farming, many of us know an aspiring “plant parent” or two. Should that be your partner, get him or her an edible garden kit to complete the collection.

Superfarmers checks off both the practical and aesthetic boxes with their kang kong, Chinese kale, and chye sim kits that you can purchase as part of the Microgreens Starter Kit Gift Set at $45 for a package of 3.

Read our article on plant-growing kits to also find out more about bonsai sets, hydroponics kits, and eco cubes.

12. The one with a DSLR

Customised “film roll”

Image credit: Shopee

This is for your special one who owns the photographer’s trinity of a film camera, DSLR, and subscription to Adobe Lightroom.If you’re looking for something that falls within their realm of interest, consider a personalised pocket “film roll” (from $12.89) for a unique gift this Valentine’s Day.

Be sure to pre-order it soon, advance notice is needed for preparation and mailing. Though, is there really such a thing as a late gift? Every day can be Valentine’s Day when you’re in love.

13. For the coffeeholic

A customised tumbler

Image credit: Shopee

Give bae a new way to carry their cup o’ joe to work with a customised tumbler. You can select from a variety of bottle colours and fonts to customise it to their liking.

It doesn’t have to have their name on it – you could even put a pet name that the both you share to make it even more special. Get your partner a personalised egg tumbler for $16.90 or a personalised slim tumbler from $12.90.

14. For the stressed out workaholic

A romantic couple’s spa session

Unwind and let your worries melt away with a soothing couple’s spa sesh. Rid yourself of those pesky knots with an invigorating couple’s massage and cap it all off with a relaxing dip in a pool or a steam sesh in the sauna together. After all, the couple that relaxes together, stays together.

Get away from the hustle and bustle of our concrete jungle and visit quiet spas like Joya Onsen Cafe which has a Japanese Onsen experience from $66.60, or Kenko Wellness Spa for a variety of reflexology massages from $60.

15. For the foodie

A heart-shaped waffle maker

Your other half’s kitchen counter is missing something and it’s this heart-shaped waffle maker ($35.75).

Image credit: @nemi_vstore via Instagram

Seriously – it’s light, small, and doesn’t require Betty Crocker cooking skills to whip up cute lil waffles in the shape of your heart. Come through with some waffle mix so you can spoil your boo with breakfast in bed.

16. For the plush toy collector

Valentine’s Day Jellycat plushies

For the SO who has a bed full of plushies – but always has space for more – the Jellycat Valentine’s Day collection has the perfect cuddle buddy when you can’t be there physically.

Image credit: @mildredanddildred via Instagram

Irresistible picks include the Red Love Heart Bashful Bunny ($50), Val & Tina Love Locks ($70) that symbolise being stuck together for eternity, and the Heartthrob Bartholomew ($100), which has the teddy bear dressed in a full heart costume.

You can get them online from the Jellycat website or find them at retailers like Kids21 at Marina Bay Sands where they have a Jellycat’s Valentine’s Pop-Up for the whole of February.

17. For the disorganised one

Heart-shaped handmade bags

If your BB is constantly losing her keys and wallet, then a heart-shaped handmade bag (from $58) from Mood and Skies is much-needed as their everyday accessory. This bag speaks for itself with its cute shape and neutral colour that matches any outfit.

Image adapted from: Mood and Skies

Beyond aesthetics, these cute bags are made from durable heavy-duty cotton canvas, which can be thrown into the washing machine if they get dirty. The bag is already cute on its own, but you can also give it an extra personal touch with cute crochet keychains from $11.

Plus, the bag features multiple compartments to keep essentials neatly sorted, so no more rummaging for cardholders or even your lip balm. It even comes with a built-in key lanyard, ensuring they’ll never have to dig around for their keys again.

Whether it’s a casual brunch date or a night out, this thoughtful gift will remind them of your love each time they sling it over their shoulder.

18. For the music lover

Customisable music box

A playlist is cute, but a customisable music box (from $34) from The Music Box Store is next-level romance. With a wide selection of music boxes you can customise with messages and images for your loved one, it’ll be a gift your boo will treasure close to their heart.

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As for songs, they have romantic tracks like Fly Me To The Moon and A Thousand Years that will melt your partner’s heart. They even have the opening themes of popular TV series like The Office and Game of Thrones as reminders of your favourite shows you’ve binge-watched as a couple.

Image credit: Swan Gift

For something extra, get your lover a personalised photo vinyl record acrylic ($50.69). Pick out the colour of the vinyl, followed by a song, and picture of your choice. Make it even more personal with a quote engraved onto the wooden base.

19. For the pawrent

Pet portraits on clothing

For the partner who loves their fur baby almost as much as they love you, get them a custom pet portraits sweatshirt ($98.93) from Drawelry.

Image credit: Drawelry

Start by uploading a picture of your boo’s furry friend, then customise the sweatshirt further by adding in the name of their pet in their favourite colour. Your designed image is then embroidered onto the sweatshirt, leaving you with furbaby’s cutest smile as a gift that’ll be a hit with any proud pawrent.

Image credit: @byop_shop via Instagram

Complete the cosy fit with a hat ($27.99) from BYOP that tells the world how much your boo loves doggos or kitties.

20. For the matcha addict

DIY matcha-making kits

If your boo’s love for matcha rivals their love for you, treat them to a DIY matcha-making kit from Crafti.

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To help your matcha lover get started in their matcha-making journey, get them a Modern Matcha Kit ($45, U.P. $59) which includes a pack of ceremonial-grade uji matcha, an electric super frother, precision scoop, matcha-making guidebook, and a mini matcha pouch that boo can bring anywhere.

The set makes over 33 servings of matcha making each cup cost ~$1.40, which is way cheaper than any cafe-bought matcha. That’s money saved for the future like getting a BTO or having a child.

Unique gifts for your bb this Valentine’s Day

It’s not that the usual watch, wallet and jewellery aren’t lovely gifts for Valentine’s Day – they absolutely are. But if you’ve been in a relationship for a while, those could likely have been given aeons ago. We hope these unique gift ideas help spark some inspiration for a refreshing gift this year!

Read more Valentine’s Day articles below:

Cover image adapted from: Crafti, @mildredanddildred via Instagram
Last updated by Ariel Soh on 10th February 2025.

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I Tried To Find Love On Dating Apps For 8 Years & Finally Found The One – Here Are 6 Things I Learnt

Renae Cheng — Mon, 23 Dec 2024 02:29:32 +0000

Finding love on dating apps

I started using dating apps in 2013 when I was in poly, so I’d consider myself an online dating veteran of sorts. Name all the mainstream dating apps off the top of your head, and I’ve tried pretty much all of them. From the age of 18 onwards, I swiped up a storm in the hopes of finding love. And in the process, met all sorts of characters – the good, the bad, and the downright toxic.

As you’d imagine, I’ve also been through a whirlwind of dating misadventures, from being catfished multiple times to getting ghosted by a “situationship” 1 week before my birthday – and subsequently spiralling into an emotional breakdown.

Having found love in 2021 – shoutout to OkCupid – I’ve officially retired from the online dating scene. Here are some pearls of wisdom I’d like to share with singletons out there with whom I used to be in the same boat.

1. Be upfront with what you want so you don’t bark up the wrong tree

The flexibility and lack of restrictions when it comes to dating apps could also be the greatest bane. Users can freely look for whatever they desire, from lifelong love to a casual fling.

Young me used to have flimsy, almost non-existent standards when it came to expressing what I wanted. The answer was: a proper boyfriend, and to experience my first love.

But I allowed myself to be okay with casual dating relationships, faux-mances – essentially providing girlfriend-levels of companionship without the commitment, and even became guys’ “texting buddies”.

It was a common occurrence to be filled with glee and excitement when a new match sends a text, only to realise that they’re just after a hookup and nothing more.
Image credit: Renae Cheng

This led to time wasted and emotions invested into guys I was never going to build something serious with. Plus tears and heartbreak when they inevitably broke it to me that my feelings of attachment weren’t reciprocated in the slightest.

Tip: State on your profile what type of connection you’re seeking, so you only attract those who are on the same page. If you find that a lil too serious and fear that it might scare potential matches off, make sure to bring it up in the initial stages of texting or – at the very least – during the first meet-up.

That way, you and the other party are both aware of what direction the connection is blossoming towards, and there won’t be misaligned expectations along the way.

2. Playing “the game” to protect your pride will only drain you

In modern dating, almost everyone is on self-preservation mode to make sure their heart doesn’t get broken, and that they don’t lose face. Compared to bygone days of romance where it was admirable to wear your heart on your sleeve, people now play a game of who can appear more disinterested, even when they’re actually keen on the other party.

Overthinking minute details like how long they’re taking to reply to a text will wreak havoc on your psyche over time.
Image for illustration only.

This leads to petty acts like having to wait a set number of hours before replying so you don’t seem despo, or not expressing things like, “I’m really looking forward to our first meet-up tonight!” – ‘cause you think it’ll make you seem overeager.

Being so guarded is a disservice not only to our own feelings, but to the other party as well – who might very well wind up being a genuine love connection.

Tip: Ask yourself, “What’s the worst that can happen?”. Someone who you’re likely not to cross paths with again if y’all don’t end up dating, wandering around with the knowledge that you actually liked them?

Even if they do go around telling people that you were too into them, it accomplishes nothing except making them sound like a cocky A-hole, and you would’ve dodged a bullet.

On the flipside, consider how many potential love connections you may have missed out on ‘cause you wanted to appear cool and aloof – leading the other party to think that you weren’t that interested.

Life’s too short to worry endlessly about unwritten rules and whether you have “the upper hand”. Feel freely, love strongly, and if the other party doesn’t reciprocate it, at least you’d have clarity and will be able to move on with #NoRagrets.

3. The right person won’t require you to bend your boundaries

I used to be guilty of downplaying my matches’ shortcomings, focusing only on positioning myself as someone who’s Ms Right for whoever I was messaging at the time. I even convinced myself that I could like things that I wasn’t interested in, just to have more in common with the other party.

Or, even more tragically, that I could bend my boundaries to suit their ideal type and dating style. This meant dressing a certain way just so they’d find me more attractive, or claiming I’m not big on texting when in reality, I would love to have sweet little text convos with my partner throughout the day.

Tip: Being 100% authentic acts as a wonderful filter to weed off matches with whom you are simply not meant to be.

For instance, I used to heavily suppress expressing my love for kids out of fear that guys on dating apps would think that I were some baby-obsessed psycho who expects them to fertilise me ASAP. But with my partner, it was one of the first things we bonded over and it allowed us to identify a common trait from the get-go.

For the record, that is not our kid, but my boyfriend’s nephew LOL.
Image adapted from: Renae Cheng

If I were to conceal that fact about myself, I might have ended up attracting other dudes but at what cost? Finding out somewhere down the line that they don’t like kids, and never wish to have any? In the wise words of a certain Ms Grande, Thank U, Next.

4. It’s better to be single & happy than attached with the wrong person

As crude as it sounds, my years of online dating experience have led to a firm belief in the saying: “Love is like a fart. If you have to force it, it’s probably sh*t.”

Throughout my young adulthood, I was so desperate for love and companionship that I’d deem every new dating app connection to be The One. This meant making them the centre of my universe even though we’d only just met, fantasising about our picture-perfect love story, and doing foolish things in an attempt to make them “want” me.

A truly sobering experience: reading old texts between me and my confidantes where I was delusional to the point of no salvation.
Image credit: Renae Cheng

They say hindsight is 20/20, and looking back it’s crystal clear that the intense infatuation I felt for various dates I met online was one-sided. My wake-up call was when the nth situationship cut me off with no rhyme or reason after a seemingly normal, and even sweet date.

For the uninitiated, a situationship is in between friendship and a relationship, where you’re dating but not necessarily official yet. We did all the things a couple would do, and certainly acted like boyfriend and girlfriend throughout a period of several weeks.

When he ghosted me a week before my birthday, I was shell-shocked and went into an emotional spiral, spam-calling him and pleading for answers over text. Despite the cruelty of cutting me off at the height of my developing feelings, I foolishly believed that it’s something I could forgive him for, and wanted nothing but to “get back together” with him.

Emo IG posts were part and parcel of the “breakup” recovery process…*cringe*
Image credit: Renae Cheng

Only when the fog lifted did I realise that it wasn’t him as a person whom I liked and wanted a relationship with – but the mere idea of finally having a boyfriend.

In fact, even before the near-sociopathic act of ghosting someone out of nowhere after treating them like you were in love with them, he already exhibited red flags galore. Being verbally abusive when I didn’t respond to his texts immediately, demanding to know of my whereabouts 24/7, guilting me for having male interactions – the whole nine yards.

Tip: It’s easier said than done, but you do not need to have a boyfriend/girlfriend. I know exactly how unbearable it can get, especially when the loneliness creeps in and you want nothing more than to have a special someone to share everything with, and experience all the magical aspects of love that they write pop songs about.

However, remind yourself that being single may be lonely, but at least you’re in control of your own life. This will allow you to be more stringent with your dating app connections, and not expect every single match to end up being “The One”. Remember, if someone is bringing you more grief and misery than joy, it’s hardly worth allowing them a spot in your life.

5. Don’t overthink your physical insecurities

I’ve encountered my fair share of catfish experiences, from strategically angled profile pics to create optical illusions, to guys straight-up claiming they were someone that they’re clearly not. God bless Google’s reverse image search function.

Image for illustration only.

In dating apps where profiles are presented one after the other like cattle at an auction, it’s natural to feel fixated on appearance. Not to bombard you with too many clichéd quotes, but “those who mind don’t matter, and those who matter don’t mind.” Would you really want to forge a future with someone whose only criteria for choosing a mate is whether they look hot?

As someone who had gone out with fellas in all shapes, sizes, and appearances, rest assured that most people are not as preoccupied with looks as you’d think. I, too, used to be insecure about things like my facial structure, and less-than-toned physique having been an overweight teenager prior to a K-pop weight loss transformation.

In terms of insecurities, it doesn’t get more confidence-crushing than to see your Tinder profile getting bashed on a forum, unprovoked.
Image credit: HardwareZone

Have I been made to feel crummy by guys who found me unattractive based on their own ideals? Yes. Did I proceed to hate my own appearance and vow never to show my physical self on dating apps for fear of being forever alone? Nah, not really.

Tip: Present yourself as you are, and people can choose to take it or leave it. Even if you’ve been traumatised by nasty comments or rejections in the past, don’t project it onto future potential matches.

As they say, different strokes for different folks. For all you know, there could be throngs of people out there who find you drop-dead gorgeous.

6. When someone is right for you, you won’t have to look for signs

After all the dating app mishaps I’ve shared with you, you might be wondering if a silver lining even exists amidst all these perils. As someone who has found someone online whom I undoubtedly want to spend the rest of my days with, I’m here to tell you that good guys/girls do exist on dating apps.

Now, the question begs: how will you know whether they’re right for you?

Not to get all abstract with you, but based on my years of experience, heartache, and countless nights sobbing into my pillow, my answer is: “you’ll just know”. Meanwhile, if you’re grasping at straws trying to conjure reasons as to whether they’re a good fit, chances are – you already have your answer.

Facts. Also, a little ironic that the show that this quote is from was recommended to me by a guy I met through a dating app, who ended up smashing my heart into smithereens.
Image credit: SineHub

My gal pals have served as agony aunts and confidantes throughout my innumerable failed dating attempts. They’d be quick to tell you how ridiculous I’d get when trying to ignore red flags, or make excuses for clearly intolerable behaviour.

In comparison, meeting and getting to know my partner gave me a sense of security and assurance I’d never felt before. He was also open and authentic, not hiding any part of himself nor expecting me to change who I am to fit some preconceived mould.

A photo taken on our first “monthsary”. We made things official just 3 weeks after matching online, which may be controversial to some – but it just seemed right.
Image credit: Renae Cheng

I used to scoff at people in love who dreamily shared that “when you know, you know”. But just like how all parents always say you’ll never understand how it feels till you have a kid yourself, it’s really something you have to experience to believe.

Tip: Whether it’s talking to new matches or going out with your online dates, be honest with yourself when looking for signs that someone is a good fit for you. Are you trying to force a connection out of nothing? Because if it really works, it shouldn’t be that difficult, and you most certainly should not be filled with doubt.

Sometimes, the signs pointing towards no are there all along, it’s up to you whether you want to heed them.

Relationship advice from someone who used dating apps for 8 years

Dating app success stories are getting more and more common. Especially in Singapore, where it’s kind of hard to meet people other than through school, work, religious institutions, and mutual intros.

Dating app horror stories may be aplenty, and it’s understandable why some people are so averse to it. But keep in mind that at the end of the day, good and bad people can be found everywhere, and the toxic dates aren’t lurking exclusively online.

Deleting your online dating account and clearing the apps from your phone ‘cause you’ve found love = one of the best feelings in life, I reckon.
Image adapted from: Vpn Mentor

If you’re weighing the pros and cons, consider the fact that dating apps open your options up way wider, and you can sift through potential matches at your convenience. Just look at me, I used various dating apps on and off from my poly and uni years all the way into proper working adulthood.

Through my suffering – or what I like to call character development and racking up XP so I can level-up in love and life – I hope you get some insight that can be beneficial in your dating and relationship adventures; whether you meet that special someone through a fateful swipe, or the old-fashioned way.

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Cover image adapted from: Renae Cheng
Last updated 21st July 2022.

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Why I Am Marrying A Vietnamese Bride After Giving Up On Finding Love In SG

Jessica Lai — Sat, 23 Nov 2024 01:00:16 +0000

Marrying a Vietnamese bride

It’s not easy finding love in Singapore. Hectic work lives leave little time for dating and standards of living are high. And with current social distancing thrown into the mix, singles might be hard-pressed to find someone to settle down with for life.

However, Adam*, 39, has opted for an alternative route when it comes to marriage. After no luck in the love department, he decided to approach a Vietnamese dating agency due to his yearning for a family. “I’m getting older, and I do want to have kids when I can,” he laments. Here’s his story on how he might be marrying a Vietnamese bride.

*Name has been changed to maintain confidentiality.

Looking for his other half

Adam, an engineer, has not had a girlfriend before, citing his introversion and small social circle as a challenge to meeting potential partners. “Girls don’t find me attractive one lah, also, I sometimes tend to tense up around people. Plus, I’m not young anymore,” he tells me.

However, he loves kids and has always wanted to have his own. “I would like to have one boy and one girl, ideally,” he says. Adam’s eyes shine when he speaks of this hope, and he expresses that it’d be satisfying to bring them up and see each of them grow as a person.

The unforgiving passage of time has dulled this hope, though, as he can’t seem to find his elusive other half. Does he have high standards? I ask. He muses, “Not really, for me, someone with a good character is most important.” He describes his type as a girl-next-door, someone feminine and more traditional, who wouldn’t mind doing household chores and cooking “like our mum’s era”.

Someone who has values like that in today’s modern world, he says, is hard to find.

Finding an agency

That unsuccessful search for love led Adam to consider roping in some help. He did use online dating apps previously like Tinder or Coffee Meets Bagel, but to little success. “It’s kind of superficial, as you need good pictures. And sometimes, the girls I’ve talked to would ghost after chatting for a bit,” he says.

Finally, he ended up chancing across a newspaper article about a Singaporean who founded a Viet bride agency which emphasised proper screening and background checks on both sides of the arrangement.

Adam admitted that he had heard from friends and even briefly visited other agencies in Orchard which he felt “lacked sincerity”.

“They kept showing me photos of beautiful girls, and never asked me what kind of traits I’m looking for in a wife. No point lah – I don’t entirely go for looks,” he recalls.

The agency Adam chose in the end was B & G Vietnamese Bride Agency, where founder Eric Koh put his mind at ease by personally chatting with him, and went in-depth to get to know him as a person. Adam explained, “He asked me how much I earned, if I owned a house or car, my occupation, traits I’m looking out for and more – I felt he was sincere in trying to find me a suitable match.”

According to the agency, this background check is to weed out insincere or unsavoury clients. Once the client has passed the checks, he will be matched up with a suitable Vietnamese lady – after the boss has spoken to her to see if she was willing to be matched up with the guy in question.

Finding a bride

As for Adam, he was introduced to Lien*, a 27-year-old graduate of Ho Chi Minh university, who was gentle and thoughtful. “The first time I saw her was through video call, and then the agency gave me her contact later, so we could converse via Zalo (a popular messaging platform in Vietnam).”

“What did you guys speak about?” I ask. “Oh, just casual things,” Adam says, like what’s her job, how’s her day going and sending each other scenery photos. For her birthday, he even got her a Xiaomi watch.

“It feels like normal dating. The only thing is, you haven’t met this person physically, and you might be getting married in a matter of weeks or months,” he says.

Adam also explained that he was only introduced to Lien after the B & G’s character profiling. This is unlike some other agencies where a slew of girls are shown to the client to “choose from”.

“It really differs from agency to agency,” he explains. “For mine, they stated a quota of three chosen matches for a set package. Other agencies will match you till you get married.”

The total matchmaking fee is about $6,500, which is paid in phases from introduction all the way to flying over to Vietnam for the wedding ceremony (before Covid hit). And FYI, all costs after are borne by the guy – like flight tickets – although the agency does provide top-up packages which include photography and videography, makeup for the bride and even dowry for the marriage day.

Adam was impressed by a wedding video of a previous couple that he was shown, “Wah, not bad eh, very professional and it’s so much more affordable than Singapore’s rates.”

Challenges in the process

However, not everything was smooth sailing for Adam as he decided to take the plunge. He initially faced some resistance from his parents. “They find it a bit weird, lah, like usually the typical Singaporean style is to date a few years then get married. Now, it’s like in a few months you can get married.”

Even agency founder Eric told him that it was more of marriage first, then knowing the girl after. “It’s like the opposite. So definitely, there is a certain risk,” he says. But with persuasion, his parents accepted the fact after a while.

Another stumbling block to the fledgling relationship was the language barrier. Of Lien, Adam said, “She only knows a bit of English. So we had to use Google Translate to talk. What I appreciated was that she tries her best to reply in English, although sometimes the nuances are lost as the translation isn’t the most accurate,” he laughs.

To counter this, some of his friends’ wives attended English classes, to help them better assimilate into the culture here in Singapore.

Misconceptions about marrying a Vietnamese brides

Despite more Singaporean men marrying non-resident brides, misconceptions still plague the industry, citing the brides as “scammers” or being forced into disadvantageous arrangements. However, Eric firmly believes that it’s an unfair stereotype and that his agency is determined to ensure both parties consent and respect each other on equal footing.

“Nobody wants to come here to scam people. And it’s unfair to judge these women just because they might have financial reasons – domestic helpers and workers also do likewise,” he said.

His agency also holds rigorous checks for both men and women, like a minimum salary of $3,500 and parental approval for guys, ensuring that the marriage starts on the right foot with financial stability and the okay from future in-laws.

According to Eric, most Vietnamese ladies feel that Singaporean men can provide their future kids with better prospects, and more often, they are better protected in Singapore than Vietnam due to the strength of the Women’s Charter. He also has a soft spot for his clients, especially 30-something-year-olds, he says, who are “good folk, but lack social skills”, and hopes his agency could get them a decent match.

“Here, we turn away guys who see their brides as a tool, not a partner. They are coming into this with the wrong mindset,” Eric says, hoping that he at least provides seeking guys a more legit option than dodgy agencies which are looks and profit-oriented.

He shares a horror story, “Once, I heard of a bait-and-switch, they showed a beautiful girl to the guy, only for him to fly over and be told she was already married. The agency just said, nevermind, you can meet these five other girls instead!”

Taking the plunge for marriage

As for Adam, our prospective groom, he remains nervous yet hopeful about Lien and what the future holds. “People can say what they want,” he says, “but ultimately, it’s a risk I’m willing to take.” Success stories of loving couples like that of his friends, also keep him going.

Turns out that even though the journey to marriage might look different from what we’re used to, love and companionship do come in all forms – and in the most unexpected ways.

Images just for illustration only, and are not representative of the interviewee.
Cover image adapted from: @truongdiepanh_ via Instagram
Last updated 17th December 2021.

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10 Scary Date Ideas In Singapore For Brave Couples Who Don’t Mind Hantu As Your Third Wheel

Josiah Neo — Mon, 19 Aug 2024 05:00:50 +0000

Scary date ideas in Singapore

Contrary to popular belief, couples here in Singapore are spoilt for choice when it comes to date ideas. Sometimes though, the restaurant your bae has been hinting at is fully booked, or you just don’t want to deal with overcrowded attractions. One way to spice up your relationship without any is to bring your boo out on a spooky paktor instead.

We’re not kidding – studies have shown a correlation between fear and attraction, which is why your partner is prone to grip your hand tightly whenever y’all are watching The Conjuring for the third time. For those that don’t mind being potentially third-wheeled by a supernatural being, here are scary date ideas for the brave couples out there. Fingers crossed it’s only Casper saying boo.

1. Romantic night cycling along Upper Thomson Road

Disclaimer: No hantu will be there to help you capture a K-drama-worthy pic like this. Also, wear your helmets!

There are many perks to night cycling with your bae. You don’t have to worry about sunburns, it’s a relatively cheap activity that won’t break the bank, and you can work out your legs at the same time. Plus, you don’t have to travel far – Upper Thomson Road is a well-cycled trail located in central Singapore.

The trail can start anywhere but most cyclists start around the Lower Peirce Reservoir carpark and head North towards Mandai. For the gents, your eyes better not be lingering on any ladies chilling at the bus stop though, especially if they’re wearing white. Read our guide on bicycle rentals in Singapore if you don’t have your own set of wheels.

Pro tip: Grab supper at Casuarina Curry on the way back.

2. Stargazing at the Amber Beacon Tower at East Coast

Image credit: @peekturesq via Instagram

Eastsiders can cap off a date night with a stargazing session over by East Coast Park’s Amber Beacon Tower. There, you won’t have to worry about throngs of fellow Sinkies equipped with their bulky camera setups ruining your romantic evening. The Yellow Tower is known to be one of the most haunted places in Singapore.

This was also where one of the biggest murder mysteries happened back in 1990. A couple was brutally attacked during their own date night, and unfortunately, the girlfriend died of her wounds. The murderers have still not been caught till this day, so you should definitely keep an eye over your shoulder if you’re going to paktor here.

3. Sunset picnic at Bedok Reservoir

Image credit: @lodha_sandeep via Instagram

Unless you’ve never flipped open a tabloid, you’ll know Bedok Reservoir and its reputation as one of the most haunted places in Singapore. Don’t let the peaceful facade fool you – many bodies have been found floating in the water over the past couple of years.

Those with a penchant for the macabre can still find an unoccupied bench to have a nice picnic together watching the sun set over the horizon. We’d just be a bit cautious about sharing a sandwich with any suspicious people who approach.

If you’d rather catch a beautiful sunset without the fear of a third party joining you, read our guide to sunrise and sunset spots in Singapore.

4. Go for a leisurely night drive at Lim Chu Kang Road

We’d be alarmed if we turned around to see someone sitting in the back seat while driving down Lim Chu Kang Road.

Why stick with the same view out of your restaurant’s window when you can take a leisurely drive down one of Singapore’s oldest and longest roads for a scenic date? Lim Chu Kang Road is not only famed for its kampung and lush vibes, it’s also where multiple cemeteries call home.

Rather than go for a drive in the daytime where your view will be marred by trucks and other industrial vehicles, a night-time joyride would be a lot eerier with the deserted roads adding to the sinister atmosphere. Just don’t be a good samaritan and pick up any “hitchhikers”, if you get our drift. Bonus points if you put on some tunes for an impromptu carpool karaoke sesh.

Check out these other haunted roads in Singapore for a ghostly road trip.

5. Do a walking tour of Neo Tiew Estate together

Neo Tiew Estate is often used by the SAF for urban warfare training.
Image credit: Remember Singapore

For all the Ah Boys To Men who just can’t seem to let their two years spent in the army go, you can also show your GF the beautiful estate where you spent many hours with your buddies in close quarters.

Neo Tiew Estate was once a bustling neighbourhood in the Lim Chu Kang area that was named after a pioneering entrepreneur who set up shop there in the early 1900s. But his family was massacred by the Japanese during World War 2, and their souls were left to roam the grounds.

The estate as you see it was built in the 1970s and abandoned in 2002, resulting in its derelict state. Rumour also has it that banana trees were planted around the estate, so we’d be cautious of any pontianaks hanging around the area when you’re checking it out.

6. Take the last train at Bishan MRT

Image credit: @trustylioncity_smb3587p_t18 via Instagram

Despite having lived in Bishan for more than a decade, my goosebumps still stand whenever I’m walking home at night, no thanks to the knowledge that I’m walking on what might have been previously a cemetery.

Yes, in case you didn’t already know, most of Bishan – including the bustling MRT interchange – was built on top of a cemetery called Peck San Theng. Legend has it that staff working the graveyard shift has seen apparitions in the tunnels from coffin bearers. If you’re up for a good spook to cap off your date night, taking the last train home from Bishan is a good place to start.

Check out other haunted MRT stations in Singapore.

7. Set up camp at Pulau Ubin

Image credit: NParks

Forget staycations in a swanky hotel room. Impress your partner by pitching a tent – a literal canvas one – and spend the night together in nature on Pulau Ubin. The island off the North-Eastern coast of Singapore is best known for its hiking trails and other outdoor activities which includes camping at their three campsites: Jelutong, Mamam, and Endut Senin.

Be warned though – campers have reported multiple supernatural experiences at Mamam campsite, including hearing sounds like footsteps and laughter. But the worst is probably the story of a camper seeing fingers press down onto their latex tent in the middle of the night. We’d probably not be able to close our eyes for the rest of the night.

8. Birdwatching at the Pasir Ris Tower

Image credit: Anshul Johri via Google Maps

If your SO has picked up birdwatching, you can bring them to the Look-out Tower at Pasir Ris Park. The three-storey tower makes it a perfect vantage point for spotting birds. But if you decide to come when the sun has set, you might be spotting some other creatures too.

The tales about the paranormal encounters people have had here all revolve around the same theme, leading it to be coined the “Suicide Tower”. An innocent person would rush to the top of the tower to investigate something, only for their friends to see them leaping off the tower to their deaths unexplainably. But with their dying breath, they reveal that they were pushed off by something instead.

P.S. We went ghost hunting at Pasir Ris Park to see if we could spot any “friends”.

9. Appreciate the arts & culture together at Haw Par Villa

It’s probably time to switch things up after you’ve been to the National Gallery for the umpteenth time. Enter Haw Par Villa, a theme park cum outdoor art gallery with surreal statues depicting some of the strangest Asian cultural scenes, most notably the 10 stages of the Court of Hell.

As innocuous as it might seem, there is a nasty rumour that a witch doctor or bomoh used to sneak into the park to make deals with the ghouls and spirits. Those beings, however, reportedly never left the premises and have taken to haunt the grounds. Don’t be surprised if you hear weird screams coming from the Court of Hell like the security guards have.

Haw Par Villa also has its relatively new Hell’s Museum for couples to check out. Its exhibitions on death and how it’s celebrated and discussed among various religions in Singapore will give a whole new meaning to “death do us part”.

10. Book a chalet on St. John’s Island

Image credit: Singapore Land Authority

LBR, staycation-ing at a new hotel in Singapore is such a “been there, done that” date idea. For your next staycation with bae, consider booking a chalet on St. John’s Island instead. It only costs $27/night and you’ll get an entire lodge with kitchen, common areas, and 4 bedrooms should you want to invite friends along.

Image credit: 3 Playgrounds

While St. John’s Island is known to be a quiet, beachy alternative to the always-crowded Sentosa, this place has its own spooky lore. It was once a quarantine centre for those infected with cholera and leprosy, and holding station for POWs during WW2.

You might’ve noticed the giant chessboard on the island – it’s said that Japanese soldiers used POWs as chess pieces and killed any human piece that had been captured. It’s said that you can still hear the screams from POWs being beheaded in the dead of the night.

Date ideas in Singapore at haunted places

Listen, there’s nothing wrong with arranging a normal date like art jamming or hiking the Green Corridor, but those are all basic ideas that you can bet every other Singaporean has on their bucket list. To really impress your other half, especially if they are a fan of the supernatural, take them on one of these scary dates instead to get their hearts racing in a different way.

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Cover image adapted from: @trustylioncity_smb3587p_t18, @peekturesq via Instagram
Last updated by Raewyn Koh on 19th August 2024.

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I’m 36 And I Don’t Have A Boyfriend Nor Kids, And Why That’s Perfectly Okay

Vanessa Mostafa — Fri, 03 May 2024 01:08:19 +0000

Being single at 36

When I was young, I always wondered what it would be like to find “the one”. That, and of course, having kids of my own. I was a hopeless romantic: A dreamer who idealised the notion of soulmates who are meant for one another. You know, The Notebook kind of eternal love. I wanted to find my Noah.

Never in my wildest dreams did I imagine that I’d be single, child-less and in my thirties, but here I am. And let me tell you, I’m having the best time of my life. Which begs the question: When did my desire for a traditional happily-ever-after dream get flung out of the window?

What I thought my life in my 30s would be like

Me as a young, hopeful child. And a letter to Straits Times Life! Mailbag on 25 Nov 2006. *I changed my name in 2010.
Image credit: Vanessa Mostafa

I’d always longed for love for as long as I can remember. It didn’t matter that I never knew love or what a happy relationship looked like up close as my parents separated when I was just a baby. I knew that one day I’d have it. My heart ached for it so bad, that I even named my future children at the age of 18.

I loved movies such as Ghost and Pride and Prejudice. And like the ladies of the Jane Austen novel, I imagined one day, bumping into my “Mr Darcy”…

I saw myself meeting the love of my life, maybe somewhere quaint like a library or a cafe, just like that scene in Taylor Swift’s Begin Again music video. Perhaps we’d date for some years, unrushed, before finally tying the knot in an intimate wedding in a secret garden surrounded by family and friends.

What it actually was like in my 30s

I recently turned 36 a few months ago. Twice the age of when I first came up with the names of my future children. Yes. I am still single. Never been in love. And of course, without kids. There are many reasons however, as to why I ended up still single in my 30s. Some by choice, while others by circumstances.

Helicopter mum & lack of socialisation

My mum was a helicopter tiger mum who overprotected me to the point of me not having a social life with people my age. Unlike many teenagers and young adults who had the luxury of hanging out with friends through social meet-ups after school, simple meal get-togethers such, or staycations; much of my teenage years right through to my mid-twenties consisted of merely school and home.

Socialising was unheard of, let alone a partner in life. Heaven forbid I should go on a date or bring a boyfriend home at that age.

I never understood my mum’s rationality other than the fact that she was set in her ways, and that there was nothing I could do to change her mind. I remember turning down many requests and invites to hang out with friends after school. Even post-work hangs with colleagues became a chore as I had to “ask her for permission”.

After many years of fighting with her over this, I simply gave up.

Insecurity from being bullied through school

Insecurity about my looks also played a role in dampening my quest for love. I never felt that I was “attractive enough” for society, much less for the opposite sex. I was convinced that the world revolves better around you, if you had good or pleasant looks to begin with. I hated my teeth, my gummy smile and lack of womanly assets.

Perhaps these feelings also stem from my past history of being teased and taunted. No one knows this. Not even my family. But I was pretty much bullied all through school. When I was in primary 6, some classmates called me “duck” whenever they saw me while making quacking sounds and flapping their hands.

Under One Roof’s Abigail (pictured left).
Image credit: todaypk.video

At some point, they even called me “Abigail” – a recurring character in the local sitcom Under One Roof who had big teeth and cried a lot into a bowl. I did not cry a lot, but I had big teeth. In secondary school, another classmate simply said “eee…” whenever I was near him.

At that time, I was resigned to the fact that I would forever be the ugly duckling that would never grow into a beautiful swan.

Much has changed over the years and I have learnt to accept my “ugliness”. I no longer care about how people look at me or if they judge me. I am comfortable in my own skin and being in front of the camera.

I no longer have awkward smiles that just don’t feel right, wondering whether to show teeth or not to. Selfies and wefies feel perfectly okay to take and filters are not needed. I became okay with ugly, or as I like to call them, “derpy” photos of myself.

Prioritising my work and self over the search for a partner

There is this notion or expectation that someone of my age should be happily married right now, with kids of their own and having a family. Thankfully, my mother didn’t expect this of me. At family gatherings, loved ones were far more concerned about my career prospects than me settling down.

In fact, so was I. After all, how am I supposed to support a family, if I cannot even support myself?

By the time I had passed my mid-twenties, many friends that I knew from school and work had started to get hitched, while others had their first child. Yet I didn’t feel like I was lagging behind.

It wasn’t that I had totally rejected the idea of marriage and children. I had merely put it on pause. And as the years passed, the idea of a soulmate became less and less important to me, while the idea of a “soul career” took precedence.

I also became more and more emotionally independent. I was probably 27 when I decided that this – me just being on my own – could really work. I guess you could call this the turning point in my life.

I was comfortable in my skin and now I was comfortable in my own life too. After all I had been through, it was a reflective and empowering moment where I saw myself focusing on self-nurture and self-growth.

Embracing singlehood and being “self-partnered”

Emma Watson coined the term self-partnered instead of being single – a term I seriously love! Instead of wallowing in the “what ifs”, “whys” and “maybes”, I punched ahead to embrace the possibility of a life without a partner and the idea of self-love. Every day from there just became an adventure.

I love my independence. I like the freedom and luxury of being able to do what I want when I want, even if it is something as small as watching a movie on the fly or traveling solo to another country.

My single life has led me to many epic adventures and seen me travelling abroad on a whim for many concerts.

Going to an Ed Sheeran gig alone in Melbourne in March 2018.
Image credit: Vanessa Mostafa

From Ed Sheeran to Doctor Who, Fall Out Boy to Anne-Marie. I am happy that even in my mid-30s, I can manage, with little to no sleep, still camp at gigs, dash for barriers and even be on my feet for seven hours straight. Partaking in activities and tours such as feeding the animals at Mandai Wildlife Reserve also became a regular affair.

The highlights of my singlehood go beyond just tangible stuff. Being happy in my singlehood has become a mantra I live by.

Selfies taken in Feb 2021 while feeding the animals at Mandai Wildlife Reserve parks in Singapore.
Image credit: Vanessa Mostafa

In essence, knowing that I do not need another person to make me happy. I relish the idea of being able to visit attractions and take part in fun activities on my own, whether it’s learning to plant padi at Bollywood Farms or simply hunting down the Minions at Universal Studios Singapore.

Of course, sometimes I do these with friends too.

Visiting the minions at USS for Halloween 2021.
Image credit: Vanessa Mostafa

My life adventures also include giving back to society and helping others in need. I am a regular blood donor, occasional volunteer and recently I even registered with the Bone Marrow Donation Programme (BMDP) to join the international pool where I could donate my stem cells or bone marrow.

Am I still open to the idea of marriage and kids?

Yes. I do still believe that I’ll bump into my Mr Darcy some day. But right now, I’m going to focus on making myself happy.

I have learnt that despite having friends on different pathways, like those in a marriage or with kids, my life is no less colourful and meaningful compared to theirs. I’m on the path of self-love and self-worth, and I couldn’t be happier.

Being single in my thirties feels very much like that Coldplay song – where every day feels like an Adventure of a Lifetime. But unlike the song, the only difference is that I don’t need someone… “to feel my heart beating and alive again.”

I may be 36, single and childless. But I am truly and comfortably happy for now.

Cover image adapted from: Vanessa Mostafa
Originally published on 25th October 2021.

The post I’m 36 And I Don’t Have A Boyfriend Nor Kids, And Why That’s Perfectly Okay appeared first on TheSmartLocal - Singapore's Leading Travel and Lifestyle Portal.

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